Uuuugghhh!!!!

[Jagador]

So today was perfectly fine until my stupid mom comes back from her therapist. Well her damn therapist told her to watch over my VT forum account and activites. and i was like FUCK NO!!! She said "I just want it to be safe" Well if it wasn't safe, i wouldn't be on here in the first place... UGH she makes me so mad. She asked for my SN and PW to here. She wanted to also know that everything i put on there was oaky. And then she said that if she can't get it, then she'll make an account. I told her that i'd get her banned asap if i found out. I've told her that this is my online sanctuary. She didn't give a shit! UGH!!! she makes me so mad!!!!

-sorry for language in here-

[Θάνατος]

Dude that really sucks how did your mom find out that you had a VT account?

I am sure if she gets an account here that she can be banned just have the admins do an IP sweep to make sure there are not two accounts from one IP address.

[Jagador]

She went through my web browsing history on my computer.. she had my bro put the password in for her. so i changed it and im not telling anyone.. she really knows how to get on people's nerve. and she wonders why we get so mad at her.

[AllThatIsLeft]

WELLL that blows.. some people just don't get the word "privacy"

[Jagador]

I KNOW SERIOUSLY!!!! Now shes bugging the shit out of me every single damn day for VT!! its so annoying!!!

[Sapphire]

Places like this could very easily be unsafe and so she just wants to know that this isn't like that.
Couldn't you negotiate and show her around VT instead of handing over your password?

[Hyper]

So today was perfectly fine until my stupid mom comes back from her therapist. Well her damn therapist told her to watch over my VT forum account and activites. and i was like FUCK NO!!! She said "I just want it to be safe" Well if it wasn't safe, i wouldn't be on here in the first place... UGH she makes me so mad. She asked for my SN and PW to here. She wanted to also know that everything i put on there was oaky. And then she said that if she can't get it, then she'll make an account. I told her that i'd get her banned asap if i found out. I've told her that this is my online sanctuary. She didn't give a shit! UGH!!! she makes me so mad!!!!

-sorry for language in here-

x.x and you are sure taking the smart & mature route - mothers are not to be toiled with especially those types who never admit their wrong

Eventually she'll read everything you've written here including this

Just like Sapphire said.. Instead of being all defensive and immature.. Show her around VT yourself - would leave a better impression as if your not trying to hide something and if you wrote some embarassing stuff you don't want your mother to read just edit them x.x

I have enough faith in VT to believe that any mature parent wouldn't see it as a threat since we're not a dating site and we have an age limit and we're quite crazy about it

Ohh and do tell her that the active members are not the ones who ask the questions in the puberty forums x.x

[mrmcdonaldduck]

i really feel sorry for you.

if my parents found out theyd do the same thing.
try keep it from her, or you could make a new account that she doesnt know about.

and always delete your history.

[Jagador]

I would show her Vt, but problem comes is i don't want her say.. OH WHATS THIS?? You got a message!!! She really knows how to irritate me so badly. Also, once she knows more about Vt, she can freely view this sight without having to sign up.. which puts me on edge, so i have to re edit my settings to put it all on Contacts and moderators only viewing.... Sorry but for me, i dun think i can bear with her knowing everything i put in here. Especially family problems. She will go crazy once she finds out what i stuck on the forums

[Sapphire]

She knows of this site by name and so what stops her loading the forums up, seeing this and being able to identify your account that way?

It is better for your relationship to sit her down and show her VT since she knows about it and is only concerned for your safety.

Also, as Hyper has said, you can edit posts you don't want her to see.
Or you can sweet talk a staff member and see if they will temporarily delete a couple of threads.

[Jagador]

She doesn't know my account name... so she really won't know which one is me.. i think... anywho, and i know that nothing is stopping her from loading this page, but she wants us to respect her privacy, and we do, but when it is our turn(meaning me and my siblings) she just HAS to know everything we do...

Right now she is slowly forgetting about it.. not asking as often as she did like a week ago.. im hoping very much that she will forget about this... x.x if she does, ill revert my name and such

[Blue63]

I'm sorry, what an invasion of privacy! I understand parents wanting you to be safe, but I think if you're 16, your parents should trust you that you're not on somewhere unsafe. Gah, that just makes me so mad, because believe me I know about controlling mothers. My parents know nothing of my online life, my computer is my business. I have had to show her my facebook before, but that wasn't so bad. I'd be careful to delete your history in the future, I'm sorry dude, good luck!

[Sapphire]

Just bear in mind that even at the age of 16 people go on to sites that are unsafe and/or interact with people who are out to hurt/take advantage of them.

[Modus Operandi]

Just bear in mind that even at the age of 16 people go on to sites that are unsafe and/or interact with people who are out to hurt/take advantage of them.

Yeah, very true.

However, I think VT is a fairly safe site to be on. They even have a section dedicated to parents that can tell them about this site.

[Rainstorm]

Wait, if your mom doesn't know your name, and wants to look on VT, just let her go through it as a guest.

[Shalom]

You have to gain trust with her I suppose. I'm sure she will get over it soon and forget to check etc.