Bothering me

[Orcas4Life]

IM new to the VT board and i want to say something that has been bothering me for about 10 years now im 16 and this happened when i was about 6.

I was on the playground with all my friends and we split up to go play in other areas but some other kids i think they were about 10 not sure, there was 3 of them best friends i remember one had a knife( no im not joking ) and told me if i didnt do what he said he would cut me and cut his skin a little to prove it to me.
Anyways the the thing he wanted me to do was go up to 3 girls and pull there pants down, and of course i listened to him did it and now im ashamed.

Only this forum knows this i dont know why i wanted to post it here but i needed to get it off my chest it has just been bothering me for a long timee...

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Well, good for you for getting it off your chest.

Unfortunately, sometimes kids take advantage of smaller kids and that's what happened to you. It's ok to feel bad about what you did, but don't dwell on it. You were young, the older kids were assholes, and I'm sure the three girls in question don't even remember it (if they do, I doubt it's something they think about very often). Pulling someone's pants down isn't a nice thing to do, but it's not the end of the world. It's over, it's in the past, you can't change it. Take a deep breath, and try to move past it. This doesn't have to bother you any longer if you don't want it to. :)

[Beautiful Obsession]

well, theres not really alot that can happen about it now, it was 10 years ago. Youu need to put it behind you babee, i know its proberally not a nice thing to think about being threatened by a knife, i know how you feel. my older brother got a knife to my throat as a "joke" petrofies you, bt the girls proberally dont even remember what happened.. i really would try and forget about it x

[Shalom]

It was a long time ago and getting it off your chest is good. Take it and run with it! You are older now and you can get past that and be strong. No reason to reflect back on the old things that are bad memories! :)

[Art_dude]

It seems like you solved the problem on your own simply by telling us and getting it off your chest.

As the other already said, one incident from 10 years ago isn't worth feeling guilty about. Yes, pulling down a group of girls' pants isn't very nice, but there are far worse things he could have told you to do. If anything, it's probably a story that the girls will look back on with a sense of humor (remember the time that little kid pansed us? lol)

You're seem like a decent guy. Don't let something from the past define your current moral status.

[alex95]

Good to know im getting things off my chess thanks to this forums. ITS really helpfull and im glad u got it off your chess.