HELP!!!!! please!! Not sure what to do... help.

[jaythunder]

Hi,
I'm only 13, and my girlfriend said that wants me to go to the friday night swim and hang out. She also said that we should go the family change rooms together, she didnt say what she wanted to do in there, like make out or ...go farther. So im not sure what to do cause im only thirteen. should i say i cant go? should i just do it? please help.

[~Dazed&&Confused~]

If she did try anything on you just say im not ready and she should understand...

[Elscire]

If she did try anything on you just say im not ready and she should understand...
or you could do what feels right to you. but i'm not encouraging this. but your girlfriend does seem to like you.

[wadeexpo]

lol go for it.. if she tries something your not comfortable w/ then just tell her...

[krzwis]

forget it dude...thats just wackoo

i'm 17 and even my gf and i change in seperate rooms....heck, in all the relationships i've ever been in we say "different rooms".... even the ones that almost went really perverted.

okay, picture this: parents see two teens go to a change room together....thats gonna bring ALOT of unwanted attention

ask her what the heck she's trying to pull on you...unless you WANT to do nasty stuff, go ahead. But if she says "i wanna be with you" just say "there's gonna be plenty of that after we get changed". Changing takes 10 minutes tops for guys and girls (infact, she ussualy beats me......she wears the bathing suit under her clothing).



then again, we could all be wrong, and maybe she just wants to save money on lockers