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hammertime3675309
September 13th, 2009, 09:43 PM
I wrote a letter to her to inform her about it. I really don't know why I feel the need to, but here it is:
I didn’t know how to say this in person, so I decided to type it out:



Over the past couple of days, I’ve noticed something wrong in my anus. I felt a bump inside, and it was effecting how much feces was coming out. I think it’s blocking my anus. I did some research, and I’ve ready blogs, medical articles, and stories about people in my same predicament. The story that led me to type this was about a guy in his early twenties that ignored a problem in his anus for over a year, and went to the doctor, and had to get surgery.

In my findings, I found that people with the same “condition” that I had also have a lot of pain and an uncomfortable feeling in their anus, and some reported that it bled. Fortunately, that is not the case for me.

I don’t know how I ended up with this “infection”, but it could be from a big piece of feces, or my finger might have cut the inside of it while wiping. Either way, I believe that I need to go see a doctor.

Can you set up an appointment with a doctor please? If I am guessing correctly, I may get a prescription of some sort, similar to the stuff I got when I got an infection in my finger. I’d like it to be scheduled before or after school, not on Tuesday or Thursday after school though. It can be later at night or early in the morning. It would be greatly appreciated!

I don’t know why I feel the need to type this up, especially since it is just an infection, but I couldn’t bring myself to tell you in person.

UPDATE 9-14-09

I left the letter on the counter before going to school this morning, and she read it. She didn't have a problem with anything. She said that she suffered from hemeroids when she was a kid. I told her that it was more then likely me "reaching into my anus while wipping to far, and scratching the skin in my anus", which is partly true.

So now I am drinking a high fiber drink mixed with a tango drink. Plus, I'm getting stool softener and some preparation H. If my symptoms don't go away, then I'll see a doctor.

And what made me feel way better was the fact that I took a big crap. I found that I have to put 4 times more effort in crapping then normal, so I shouldn't get "clogged".

Jagador
September 13th, 2009, 10:08 PM
MM.... idk, i had something similar to this, but mine only turned out to be a hemaroid, however you did do research and found out it was an infection. The letter straight forward, so she should have no problem dealing with it. She will pull you over and talk about it before going to take you to the doctors, so be prepared. I wish you the best of luck

Bougainvillea
September 13th, 2009, 10:11 PM
You need to tell her the real reason why it's that way.
It's the only way you can get proper treatment.

hammertime3675309
September 13th, 2009, 10:54 PM
MM.... idk, i had something similar to this, but mine only turned out to be a hemaroid, however you did do research and found out it was an infection. The letter straight forward, so she should have no problem dealing with it. She will pull you over and talk about it before going to take you to the doctors, so be prepared. I wish you the best of luck

It could be a hemeroid. Still not sure.

hammertime3675309
September 13th, 2009, 10:59 PM
You need to tell her the real reason why it's that way.
It's the only way you can get proper treatment.

How? I have this bump, and it needs to be treated. If the doctor finds out and mentions it, then I'll come clean.

hammertime3675309
September 13th, 2009, 11:01 PM
MM.... idk, i had something similar to this, but mine only turned out to be a hemaroid, however you did do research and found out it was an infection. The letter straight forward, so she should have no problem dealing with it. She will pull you over and talk about it before going to take you to the doctors, so be prepared. I wish you the best of luck

Thanks!

Giles
September 14th, 2009, 10:03 AM
How? I have this bump, and it needs to be treated. If the doctor finds out and mentions it, then I'll come clean.

Yea i agree with you on that... shes probably already guesed, if she knows you like that kinda thing. But only actually tell her is you have to, or it becomes obvious.

Cromm
September 14th, 2009, 05:08 PM
I don't see the problem. If you don't want to tell her specifics, just say:

"Mom, I have a butt problem. Please take me to see a butt doctor; and if you wouldn't mind staying in the waiting room, I'd appreciate it. Thanks."

I can't imagine any mom who'd want to know more. :P

Giles
September 14th, 2009, 05:35 PM
I don't see the problem. If you don't want to tell her specifics, just say:

"Mom, I have a butt problem. Please take me to see a butt doctor; and if you wouldn't mind staying in the waiting room, I'd appreciate it. Thanks."

I can't imagine any mom who'd want to know more. :P

I think he's more worried about what his mom will say or think. I mean i know that if i told my mom that I wanted to go to a "butt doctor", she would probably guess what i'd done.

Cromm
September 14th, 2009, 07:36 PM
I think he's more worried about what his mom will say or think. I mean i know that if i told my mom that I wanted to go to a "butt doctor", she would probably guess what i'd done.
Really? To me, that means you either have a mom with an over-active imagination; or you've done things in the past to put those ideas in her head. :P

Regardless, to the OP: any type of medical problem isn't something that should be left untreated, but 'infections' especially need immediate attention, as they can lead to gangreen, scepsis, and tissue death. Don't beat around the bush if it means not seeing a medical professional soon.

hammertime3675309
September 14th, 2009, 11:16 PM
Yea i agree with you on that... shes probably already guesed, if she knows you like that kinda thing. But only actually tell her is you have to, or it becomes obvious.

I have been jacking off for three years now, and I haven't been caught yet. Her finding out would make j/o less enjoyable. I keep all of my sick sexual thoughts to myself.

HelloWorld123456
September 15th, 2009, 07:26 AM
How far is this bump in the anus .. ?

If it is fairly inside your anus you might be touching your g-spot ...

artex
September 15th, 2009, 06:06 PM
this had to be 1 of the most embarrassing and awkward things, but you did it. i am glad you see how important this is! IF you had asked us here before id have said Tell them!
Your health is soooo important and as you see now that mom is ok with it and is going to help you thru it like a parent should
good for you!!!!!
get well ok let us know how you do!