Homecoming is coming up

[xhelgrindx]

Well homecoming is coming up and i have 2 girls in mind that i want to ask. These two girls are best friends. Idk if either of them like me. They are both very nice girls and i cant decide on who to ask. Im also scared if the girl i ask says no or already has a date. I feel like i cant ask both of them because that would be weird. So i need to decide on one girl and i need to know if she likes me before i ask her or im screwed lol. Thx

[scuba steve]

i would put it off for a bit, just for a while to see of one of them gets a date then you can freely pick the other. Or you could try sittin one of them up with someone you know that way it seems your helping her out so she won't feel bad if you take the other girl.
Just don't put it off, thinking for too long to the point where they both ask differant people leaving you stranded, that would suck..... good luck:cool:

[Blue63]

I'm not sure I understand part of the problem. You want to ask girl A, so you ask her. She says no I'm sorry I already have a date. So you ask Girl B and she agrees. It's not like you're cheating on her or anything. Think of the one you want to go with, make her your first choice, if something goes wrong ask the other one. I'm freaked out about homecoming to, I have a girl I like, I'll ask her when it rolls around, if she says no I also have a friend I can go with for fun.

I understand that you're worried about there feelings, and that's understandable. If you're really worried, see if whoever you don't go with needs a date, you can try and set them up, and then have a fun group dynamic thing going on.

[kyle95]

always give the girl a way out. for homecoming, you only need someone to escort. you may start by approaching the first one you see and ask if she would do you the honours of walking next to you on homecoming. be certain to tell that she only consider your question providing no other bloke has asked her already, that she ought to feel no pressure or obligation before, during and after the event, and that you would be grateful if she would take the time to consider your offer. By asking the one, you would have essentially asked the other, girls talk to each other. If you're very polite and respectful, there's a possibility that she would be forthright with you, and may even suggest someone whom she knows that may not have an escort for the occasion. Good luck mate!

[Mikey]

You should just ask the one that you like the most. If not you ask her if her friend has a date and go for the friend. Really if that doesn't work... I'ms orry man but try someone else. Because there has to be other girls out there for you.