Olyguy96
September 12th, 2009, 09:39 AM
I know this really overdone, but I need girl advice. Sorry this is so long. Okay, so I'm in 8th grade this year. I'm what you would call a feminine guy (I'm called gay by the jerks, although I'm not) and almost all of my friends are girls. I only have a few close guy friends. I'm also a straight A student and known as kind of nerdy. It's been this way for as long as I can remember, and because of this almost every girl I know sees me as a sensitive guy friend who'll help with homework - that's it.
But I've liked one of my friends for a while. She's known as a slut - even teachers think it. But when I'm with her she's really nice and fun to be around with - not slutty at all.
And all of her past boyfriends were all jocks and "macho" guys. Plus, I'm a little overweight -although I'm trying to lose weight and gain muscle- , I hate sports and I'm in the school plays. She likes to be in the plays (although prefers volleyball) and her dad is even a director. I don't think she sees me as boyfriend material, but for some reason I still have hope.
Also, my closer (girl) friends don't like her at all because they think she's a slut, and that's theyr'e only reason. She's nice to them when they (rarely) talk to eachother. I really want to ask her out. Any suggestions? Please help.
P.S. She is trying to change this year and be a "good girl".
But I've liked one of my friends for a while. She's known as a slut - even teachers think it. But when I'm with her she's really nice and fun to be around with - not slutty at all.
And all of her past boyfriends were all jocks and "macho" guys. Plus, I'm a little overweight -although I'm trying to lose weight and gain muscle- , I hate sports and I'm in the school plays. She likes to be in the plays (although prefers volleyball) and her dad is even a director. I don't think she sees me as boyfriend material, but for some reason I still have hope.
Also, my closer (girl) friends don't like her at all because they think she's a slut, and that's theyr'e only reason. She's nice to them when they (rarely) talk to eachother. I really want to ask her out. Any suggestions? Please help.
P.S. She is trying to change this year and be a "good girl".