Pornography Problem

[cooldude123]

I am 13.

I don't watch pornography. Mainly because i'm too scared too.

Lately, on the odd occasion, i looked at a few pictures. I try to resist but i cannot help it. Then aftarwards, i feel extremely guilty.

I can't resist, so i don't know what to do!

Any help?

[JackOfClubs]

Its natural to feel guilty. And I don't think this is allowed on the forums....

[AdamTheAce]

when i started watching porn i was like that. now im fine because im too clever to be caught,i delete my history


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[Giles]

Its normal to feel guilty after looking at porn (and/or jacking to it).. But, its also normal to watch it so... it makes no sense.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Its natural to feel guilty and be a little bit curious, your young and you want to figure out how things work/look its nothing bad just dont get caught.

[cooldude123]

Should i attempt to give up?

I have tried a few times, failed.

[JackOfClubs]

Should i attempt to give up?

I have tried a few times, failed.

There is no need to give up, unless it is protruding into your social life.

[cooldude123]

There is no need to give up, unless it is protruding into your social life.

That is not a problem.

Yes i know i shouldn't feel guilty, but that isn't my main problem.

I am too scared i will get found out! Even though i use private browsing etc.

[Xunji]

It's normal.

[Giles]

Hey, i use private browsing for everything. As far as im aware, it eliminates all history/search things/and websites visited. your completley hidden while using that.

[cooldude123]

Well i either use Private Browsing, or my own computer. Even on that, i delete everything!

I don't look at much Pornography. Only naked pictures etc and that is all.

Do you reckon i will be fine, or what i should do?

[Viral Death]

You will be okay I would just wait till no one is around then look at the pictures. Besides its normal for men to look at pornography its just a natural instinct. Good will hunting!

[IAMWILL]

Your parents should respect your privacy and what your doing online, just make sure to only do it when they're all asleep and not home, then just delete your history, or use private browsing, and the clear your cookies. Its totally normal to feel guilty.

[Giles]

I'd say overall... as long as you use

private browsing
Delete your cookies
do it while your alone, or every1 is asleep
and, you should be ok. :)

[cooldude123]

Thanks.

[MacMilker]

dude dont worry i look at it alll the time, its how i normally jack off. just b careful about it and dont get caught or it will ruin your parents trust.

[cooldude123]

I can't. I just can't.

For the last day, the guilt has over run me. I worry all the time.

I know it will kill me, but i will just give it up. Clear my mind. Then i don't have to worry about it.

Do you think this is best, because it is that bad, i think i could cry it is that bad!

[stef]

if u feel guilty just dont do itl.l.

[AdamTheAce]

i can sympathize. i was like the the whole time i watched it, till i learnt how to delete my history.... its in tools, delete browsing history, and the third one down. or delete it all if your scared. if you can hide it.DO it!

[cooldude123]

However, it's in the back of my mind all the time.

I will give up. Simple as that. Clear my mind...

[hammertime3675309]

Do you own a PSP or iPod Touch? It's way easier to look at "stuff" like that.

[Jagador]

Well.. we all feel guilty the first few times we look at porn. After you keep doing it after awhile, you don't feel so bad anymore. Just don't get caught doing it.=P

[cooldude123]

That is my problem, i worry about getting caught.

At the moment, i have given up. What should i do next, stick to this?

[cooldude123]

That is my problem, i worry about getting caught.

At the moment, i have given up. What should i do next, stick to this?

Bump thread.

Sorry about the double post.

^^What i mentioned above, should i stick to this?

[daveywavey]

don't be ashamed to want to explore your sexual tension if you ask me, you are like every other boy here in the world, we all crave it at one point of time or another, what i do unless im really horny is i just use my imagination, sometimes its better then porn lol

[cooldude123]

Well i am too scared too. It stays on my mind all the time.

I'm ok now because i have given up at the moment.

I even have to hide VT Forums the same as if i was hiding Porn, i am that scared.

[daveywavey]

very strict parents?

[cooldude123]

very strict parents?

Can be at times.

Right now, i am using Private Browsing. Just to hide this site!

Should i just stay like i am, not looking at porn. Even though i will struggle. Or...
Should i figure something out?

[cooldude123]

Can be at times.

Right now, i am using Private Browsing. Just to hide this site!

Should i just stay like i am, not looking at porn. Even though i will struggle. Or...
Should i figure something out?

Bump.

Sorry for the double post guys!

I need some idea's to sort this out.

[RaeNose]

I'm really surprised.
I was addicted to porn for years, and I mean addicted.
I personally find it disgusting (but so addicting) and I'm proud of you for giving up on it.
Think about who and what is going into the online pictures and videos.
How many girls are being kidnapped and sexually abused. A majority of them aren't voluntarily doing this.
I believe that fantasies lead to some of the greatest injustices, because they're placed in the back of our minds. They lead to that guilt and those constant thoughts every day.
Yes, you will struggle. And yes, you will give in sometimes.
But what you're attempting to do will help you in the long run.

[cooldude123]

I'm really surprised.
I was addicted to porn for years, and I mean addicted.
I personally find it disgusting (but so addicting) and I'm proud of you for giving up on it.
Think about who and what is going into the online pictures and videos.
How many girls are being kidnapped and sexually abused. A majority of them aren't voluntarily doing this.
I believe that fantasies lead to some of the greatest injustices, because they're placed in the back of our minds. They lead to that guilt and those constant thoughts every day.
Yes, you will struggle. And yes, you will give in sometimes.
But what you're attempting to do will help you in the long run.

I will do that then. Thanks for the help!

I hardly looked at it, but i think giving up now will help.

Thanks!

[RaeNose]

You're very welcome. :)

[Shalom]

Do whats best for you, keep it safe and clean though and keep track of who is around you.