gay,bi or wat?

[Connor1]

hey guys

so I wanted to c wat other people thought of my experience and whether i should consider myself bi gay or straight?

I'v always been the guy to take care of how he looks and the cloths he where's
I like shopping alot but also like things like football and hockey

Anyways its been i while since my story but here it goes... when I was 12 i met my bf and over a period of a yr. we started hanging out alot.. joke wrestling things like that... i could have sworn he liked it as much as i did.. I used to start fascinating him when i " you know"
anyways one night at a party with friends i got really drunk and started saying shit... he took me aside and asked me if i like him more then a friend... i was to drunk and started to get right upset... in the end it might of slipped out that i liked him... later one i denied it and said that it was the drinks falt... we havent been as close as we were since. i'v had gf's in the past and still consider myself to like girls.

do u think he's still weirded out and im i gay?

[MichaelAdams1993]

I think the only person that can anwer that is him. And I need more details about you feel to determine if your gay or not.

[Connor1]

well i dnt really wana b gay but ive had some times where ive jerked off thinking about him....hes my friend and i feel really physicaly attracted to him... not like in love...the thing is i m still a vergin so i think i just feel comfortable with him.. kinda like that buddy feeling... ive never actualy liked a girl 100%

[The Joker]

If you aren't in love that means you're not gay or bi. You need to be physically and emotionally (love) attracted to men only to be gay, and to be bi, you have to be physically and emotionally attracted to guys and girls.

[diamond jetstream]

i think you might be curious. i have a boyfriend and i love him emotionally and physically so do you feel the same for him?

[Connor1]

not emotionaly... i dont love him... he's jus my closes friends and because of that iv thought about in sexualy.. but theres another story that goes along with this one which makes me question whether he's gay/bi.

one day i spent the night at his house
we chilled, watched a movie and stayed up pretty late...anyways
we slept in the same bed and nothing happened untill like right early ( 3 am) in the morning when he rolled over and had a huge hard on
me, of course seeing a opertunity slowly started to feel him up....this led to me later jerking him off( not to cum) as well as figuring him....the thing is the hole time he seemed to be asleep but yet he was as hard as a rock and seemed to like it.....im not sure if he was in a really deep sleep or if he actualy just faked it and went along. best night of my life... but he's never said anything about it and im not one to bring it up of course. but thats about where this whole bi/gay thing starts and ends... i dont feel in love with him... just physically attracted... id do anything for that night again.

[Jagador]

not emotionaly... i dont love him... he's jus my closes friends and because of that iv thought about in sexualy.. but theres another story that goes along with this one which makes me question whether he's gay/bi.

one day i spent the night at his house
we chilled, watched a movie and stayed up pretty late...anyways
we slept in the same bed and nothing happened untill like right early ( 3 am) in the morning when he rolled over and had a huge hard on
me, of course seeing a opertunity slowly started to feel him up....this led to me later jerking him off( not to cum) as well as figuring him....the thing is the hole time he seemed to be asleep but yet he was as hard as a rock and seemed to like it.....im not sure if he was in a really deep sleep or if he actualy just faked it and went along. best night of my life... but he's never said anything about it and im not one to bring it up of course. but thats about where this whole bi/gay thing starts and ends... i dont feel in love with him... just physically attracted... id do anything for that night again.

ok.. your sexually curious, and about his dream. When we guys go through puberty, we get boners like no tomorrow. So him having a boner in the middle of the night only means that he is dreaming about something sexually. You can't tell if he is gay or not just by him having a boner in the night. If he rolled on you at 3am, that means hes in a deep sleep so when people are in deep sleeps, they don't wake up very easily. So you doing that, of course he won't remember.

[MacMilker]

Idk dude i feel the same way bout my close friend. We did everything... I mean everything togethr and in the end i luv him a weird way too i just think of it as bromance :D

[MacMilker]

Idk dude i feel the same way bout my close friend. We did everything... I mean everything togethr and in the end i luv him a weird way too i just think of it as bromance :D mayb u could think the same way tell him how y feel and if he freaks out and ditches you or somethin which he shudnt then hes not a good friend if he wont listen

[Connor1]

true thanx guys.. its actually been a long time since and we're still friends.. ill b sure just to keep it at that...but its ok to dream once and a while...he's never had a gf so that helps a lil we'll c how it goes... maybe ill think of some way to ask.. but thanx for the help

[Connor1]

omg new update

went to a party the other day...showed up late...my friend was right drunk...came up to me....gave me a big hug.." man u always give the best hugs" he said....went for a walk down the road(at night)...he said i smelt really good...then he kissed me...woooo!!!.. we then went back to his house and talked about it all night ;)

[mr.sexy_bomb]

ok well liking girl things DONT ,make you gay, its how you feel in your heart that makes you who you are, and i think that you should just wait to find out

[Connor1]

yea probly...thats ok... even if i am... im really not the type of guy who feels like its burning a hole through me... i could bring it to my crave if i had to...

[lawrence22]

go up and ask why he has been avoiding u and if he thinks ure gay or wateve ask him wat the poblem is and make sure u get in his u dont like him or just make it seem like that then work your way back in to the frienly relationship and step up to jo with each other and sucking AND anal and then bf try theses stepes

[Fourth Dimension]

i think personaly that you are bi but its how YOU feel but idk if it was the booze or if he really likes you after the kiss but i have had moments like that