Ummm me and my gf are we rdy for sex! read plz

[Martin G]

I know i know this is controversial but ive known her for like 2.5years on of thing always been good friends wink wink. Well we were on the topic the other day and she said if things played right then she would do it wink wink lol. so im think im ready i got condoms and read up on it lol NERD I know lol. i just dont wanna make a mistake but im 15 and curious almost all my friends arent virgins i just wanna show my loe with her in a different way rather than kissing oforeplay and crap plz critiscm all of it will be looked at:(

[Bougainvillea]

If you want to show her you love her, then sex should be the last thing on your mind.
AND you're only 15.
I say you wait.
It doesn't matter how long you've known her.
Spend time with her.
If you think that she is the one to take your virginity, so be it.
Just don't rush things.
A real man knows how to be patient. ;)

[Martin G]

Thanks obsidian i think she is the one as so to say we have been through alot and thorugh all that is happen we still manage to love each other and love is a strong word but the sex desicion will be her desicion so thnx

[nick]

Chris, he says he's known her for 2.5 years, perhaps he knows how to be patient.

15 is old enough to my mind if you're both really happy with the idea. Any age barrier is arbitrary. You could be married at 11 or 12 in some cultures. The fact that you're seeking advice or reasssurance seems to suggest that you're not really convinced that you are ready though, or that she's the one you want to lose your virginity with.

So what I'm saying is that if you're sure this is the right thing for both of you I dont see why not, but if you're not sure then dont do it.

[Bougainvillea]

You're welcome. :P

True, love is a strong word.
But there are different types of love.
Having said that, you need to figure out what type of love it is.

Believe me.
Stopping to think about it helps. ;)

And Nick, that doesn't matter, people have gone WAY longer.

[Martin G]

wow these forums help me alot i thank whoever formed this yea ive been patient lol i know a friend who litarrly almost forced his gf to have sex ive held my urge for her because i dont want to dmg what we have. so imma talk to her and sort this out we have to make a joint desicion if we wanna thnx to both of yall. and yes i asked this for reassurance just trying to see other ppl experience with this and advice thnx guys!!!:yeah:

[Bougainvillea]

Good luck. :)

[nick]

...
And Nick, that doesn't matter, people have gone WAY longer.
Sure, and that's their choice, good for them if thats what they want. But that doesn't necessarily make it the right choice for everyone.

[Martin G]

thnx

[Maverick]

If you're going to go out and have sex you better make sure you're ready to accept the risk of her becoming pregnant. Safety measures can be taken but accidents happen

[Bougainvillea]

Sure, and that's their choice, good for them if thats what they want. But that doesn't necessarily make it the right choice for everyone.

I understand.
But sex is a big thing, may I remind you.
Well, to me it is.
And people don't take it seriously.
First times' are special moments.
You don't want to spend it with the wrong person, do you?

But anyway, I understand what you're telling me.
If you're going to go out and have sex you better make sure you're ready to accept the risk of her becoming pregnant. Safety measures can be taken but accidents happen

Yes. If you do take this step, you need to be prepared.
There is always that chance.
Don't take it.

[Martin G]

ughhh maverick that thought always sickens me when i think of it even though i know how to have safe sex it can still happen but we both will have to think about it and yes sex is a big thing we been holding it off for like more than 1year never wanting to bring the subject up because we were fear full of what may happen thnx guys. more thoughts will be great1!

[Viral Death]

All I have to say is if your ready and want to have sex then go for it!

[Martin G]

i think i am but i have to have another big talk with eileen the gf lol to see if we wanna go through wit it thnx guys

[Viral Death]

I figured out I wasnt ready when I just sat down and twattled my thumbs

[RenamedUser]

My suggestion; take a proverbial step back, evaluate the circumstances, and decide for yourself whether or not you are truly, fully ready. If you're left with any residual hesitance, that's a good sign you should wait.

[amppi1236]

if your ready and she is ready... go for it!
Safe sex hint: don't put 2 condoms on top of you penis at once!!! it breaks more easily that way!!
have fun.

[YourFriend]

If you want to show her you love her, then sex should be the last thing on your mind.
AND you're only 15.
I say you wait.
It doesn't matter how long you've known her.
Spend time with her.
If you think that she is the one to take your virginity, so be it.
Just don't rush things.
A real man knows how to be patient. ;)

Agreed, +rep

[Mr. Awesome]

Im sorry but my way of seeing it is, if you are asking if you are ready, then you must not be, only you can know when your ready, and i dont think that you will get the right answer here. The answer must be gotten after a discussion between yourself and your girlfriend. If you do decide to go through with it then make sure you use protection

[Giles]

Th fact you have to ask proves you aren't

[TheFreeshooterII]

AND you're only 15.
Kids Are Having Sex At An Earlier Age
Im 15 Still a Virgin i Aint Bothered But Everyone i Know Has Been in Some Sexual Activity

[Giles]

Fair enough your 15 (almost of age) BUT if you have to ask us(random people that you dont know) then you obviosuly don't know yourself, so your not ready.

[Grey fox]

You may be ready for sex, but are you ready to be a father?

Think about it.

[nick]

Come on, give the guy a break, I made the "if you have to ask us" point myself but its been overdone now. Safe sex is, on the whole if done properly, safe. Of course there's a small risk of pregnancy and I suppose its therefore right to take that into consideration. But really unless you screw up at it that risk is tiny.

[RenamedUser]

Fair enough your 15 (almost of age) BUT if you have to ask us(random people that you dont know) then you obviosuly don't know yourself, so your not ready.
I agree with this sentiment, but it's not entirely true. No matter how ready you are, you're going to have some degree of curiosity and perhaps fear before you go forward with it.