TrinkTrik
September 8th, 2009, 03:54 PM
Hi me again lol,
My EX GF dumped me a few weeks ago :'( the 1 who i was talkin bout in the 1st post I made.
Well the story goes like this:
Im at school and in P.E Rya (hes an ass :P) came up to me and said,
"I told your GF your also dating Cal"
I got expelled that day for beating him with a hocker stick }:D:cool:
so when I got back to school he kept saying that and I got right pissed off (soz for swearing)
SO I told Cal (thats what I call her lol) what Ryan said and she was just as mad as me.
When I got home that day my GF called and told me it was over and when I asked bout ryan she Hesitated and said "no, I jsut wanna be on my own for a little bit".
When I told Cal my EX Dumped me something happened... She became "primary 7".
To explain Primary 7... I need to go back to Primary 7.
I went this trip with the school to an outdoors centre where we did cool assd stuff, archery, kayaking Midnight Walks etc.
But on 1 night this strange, tall, beautiful girl would not stop following me (now i know that was cal).
I was quite scared but I rememberd her face.
Now to S1
In S1 i walked in all Ballsy and willing to prove "Mess with me and Ill mess ya face" (a guy learnt that 3 months later when he went for me :D)
So as I walked in this Tall figure (I mean tall im 6FT, shes 6.4FT) shadows me and I turned round and boomb... Theres Cal.
All through S1 to S3 we were ALWAYS talking, and one day I said "why did you follow me about that whole night a few years ago?" and she said
"You looked like one of those boys who..." she couldent finish it she just kinda blushed and shyed off and everytime I asked bout it she said
"I Dunno".
Then I met Liv... love of my life untill she dumped me, After that Cal stopped talking to me, Shed wait for ME to talk to her, we both took Biology and we spoke in that answers and the ocasional "HI".
PRESENT DAY now
Liv dumped me and I told Cal that she split with me... and BANG its S1 all over again.
When I asked my Big Cousin (shes not that big 3 months of a difference and shes 4 Foot pmsl) she said "Matthew she WANTS YOU change the Antena on your phone your getting the wrong call"
But I wasent that convinced and I put it to the back of my head for a bit.
Later that week Cal and I had Biology and our teacher (shes cool) lets us do W/E we want for the last 5 mins of the lesson, and Cal and I were talking and when I brought up that us dating would be kinda cool she was kinda laughing but then I said, "it would be like the Episode of How I Met your Mother where Barney had it off with Wendy the waitress, could kill your friendship" and we spoke about it and yes we did have a laugh.
I later spoke to a girl I met months ago and she said, "She fancies you, just do it your friends you'll be able to understand what will hapen if she turns round and says no"
So I keep going to talk to her about it this week but shes like... Practicaly school staff... just not payed. Shes so busy and caught up in stuff, SO i decided to plan a bit ahead but I just did't know what I was going to do or say so i wrote this little thing (you can skip it if you want) :-
"Weve knowen eachother a LONG time and well i noticed when i dated Liv u didn't talk to me as much as ya did now and before me and her started dating, I don't know how you feel about me but I would like to try and go out with you, Ill understand If you don't wanna "Kill the bar" (How I Met your Mother frase, What Lilly and Marshall say to Barney when he says hes gonna try get in bed with Wendy) but... id like it if we could try it, if anything It would make me think ive done something face to face and it would make me feel happy knowing I can ask most poeple out plus, i have felt like this for a while, even before liv. If ya say yes ill be over the moon but ill go as slow or as fast as you want, ill run by your bounderies because, I rush into alot of things and well we would be more than friends and I just feel that, going fast would leve us with less options in the future, just don't tell anybody we had this conversation, I would like it to be private, especialy If Ker found out.... girl gives me the creeps and she hates me"
If you didn't read that don't worry its not of a great deal importance what is important is this 1 question...
Should I ask her out?
Now reember we have been friends for a long time.
Im only asking this because, I don't know what to do and my mates are dumb.
MRKS: Relationships are for wimps and poofs
SI: A dont wanna hear about your love life
SCT: What? Cal? out? no shes in school
So since they are no help, and I realy can't think strait...
Can somebody tell me what to do?
My EX GF dumped me a few weeks ago :'( the 1 who i was talkin bout in the 1st post I made.
Well the story goes like this:
Im at school and in P.E Rya (hes an ass :P) came up to me and said,
"I told your GF your also dating Cal"
I got expelled that day for beating him with a hocker stick }:D:cool:
so when I got back to school he kept saying that and I got right pissed off (soz for swearing)
SO I told Cal (thats what I call her lol) what Ryan said and she was just as mad as me.
When I got home that day my GF called and told me it was over and when I asked bout ryan she Hesitated and said "no, I jsut wanna be on my own for a little bit".
When I told Cal my EX Dumped me something happened... She became "primary 7".
To explain Primary 7... I need to go back to Primary 7.
I went this trip with the school to an outdoors centre where we did cool assd stuff, archery, kayaking Midnight Walks etc.
But on 1 night this strange, tall, beautiful girl would not stop following me (now i know that was cal).
I was quite scared but I rememberd her face.
Now to S1
In S1 i walked in all Ballsy and willing to prove "Mess with me and Ill mess ya face" (a guy learnt that 3 months later when he went for me :D)
So as I walked in this Tall figure (I mean tall im 6FT, shes 6.4FT) shadows me and I turned round and boomb... Theres Cal.
All through S1 to S3 we were ALWAYS talking, and one day I said "why did you follow me about that whole night a few years ago?" and she said
"You looked like one of those boys who..." she couldent finish it she just kinda blushed and shyed off and everytime I asked bout it she said
"I Dunno".
Then I met Liv... love of my life untill she dumped me, After that Cal stopped talking to me, Shed wait for ME to talk to her, we both took Biology and we spoke in that answers and the ocasional "HI".
PRESENT DAY now
Liv dumped me and I told Cal that she split with me... and BANG its S1 all over again.
When I asked my Big Cousin (shes not that big 3 months of a difference and shes 4 Foot pmsl) she said "Matthew she WANTS YOU change the Antena on your phone your getting the wrong call"
But I wasent that convinced and I put it to the back of my head for a bit.
Later that week Cal and I had Biology and our teacher (shes cool) lets us do W/E we want for the last 5 mins of the lesson, and Cal and I were talking and when I brought up that us dating would be kinda cool she was kinda laughing but then I said, "it would be like the Episode of How I Met your Mother where Barney had it off with Wendy the waitress, could kill your friendship" and we spoke about it and yes we did have a laugh.
I later spoke to a girl I met months ago and she said, "She fancies you, just do it your friends you'll be able to understand what will hapen if she turns round and says no"
So I keep going to talk to her about it this week but shes like... Practicaly school staff... just not payed. Shes so busy and caught up in stuff, SO i decided to plan a bit ahead but I just did't know what I was going to do or say so i wrote this little thing (you can skip it if you want) :-
"Weve knowen eachother a LONG time and well i noticed when i dated Liv u didn't talk to me as much as ya did now and before me and her started dating, I don't know how you feel about me but I would like to try and go out with you, Ill understand If you don't wanna "Kill the bar" (How I Met your Mother frase, What Lilly and Marshall say to Barney when he says hes gonna try get in bed with Wendy) but... id like it if we could try it, if anything It would make me think ive done something face to face and it would make me feel happy knowing I can ask most poeple out plus, i have felt like this for a while, even before liv. If ya say yes ill be over the moon but ill go as slow or as fast as you want, ill run by your bounderies because, I rush into alot of things and well we would be more than friends and I just feel that, going fast would leve us with less options in the future, just don't tell anybody we had this conversation, I would like it to be private, especialy If Ker found out.... girl gives me the creeps and she hates me"
If you didn't read that don't worry its not of a great deal importance what is important is this 1 question...
Should I ask her out?
Now reember we have been friends for a long time.
Im only asking this because, I don't know what to do and my mates are dumb.
MRKS: Relationships are for wimps and poofs
SI: A dont wanna hear about your love life
SCT: What? Cal? out? no shes in school
So since they are no help, and I realy can't think strait...
Can somebody tell me what to do?