comfy

[wadeexpo]

ok me and my girlfreind are 13 and have been going out for a month and a half (today! yay) but ya we are extremely comfortable talking to e/o.. we dont like make out or anything we can talk about everything from sex to my wonderings about what color bra shes wearing...
but im wondering... is it possible to be TOO comfortable w/ e/o?

[Aηdy]

i dont think so, its a good thing that you can talk.. you just gotta make sure you dont get too cumfortable in a physical way

[krzwis]

don't worry...my and my gf talk about alot of differnt things

and for some ODD REASON...girls are more comfy about talking about bra's (probably cause they are the ones that wear them) then guys are.

She loves the expression on my face when it turns beat red when ever she talks too much about bras....ah well, i get use to it

now she has another topic that makes me turn red: "Marridge"



don't worry, a convo is just a convo.....but don't ever talk about "how you wank off" or "are you a virgin" or ANYTHING LIKE THAT unless you can be completely 100% sure that you won't feel uncomfy/turned on by it

as the tv says "viewer disscresion is advised"
or the signs "proceed at your own risk"



something like that

[wadeexpo]

lol thanks guys

and anyway.. the most physical we've gotten is a peck kiss on the lips...
we're christian peoples lol we're not gonna screw at the age of 13

[wadeexpo]

EDIT
whoops accidently posted same thing twice... sorry people

[krzwis]

:)
*claps*
so are we :)
i'm proud of you dude :)

(i actully met her at a babtist church)

[Elokyn]

I think it all depends on what your personal standards are for yourself.

Sure, if you have a no premarital sex bar set for yourself then obviously "too comfortable" would be touching each other and stuff like that. I think talking is key. You need to talk and be comfortable with each other. That's great for your relationship. It's all up to you and your standards. Just be yourself and don't give to any pressure there may be :) :hug:

[jaythunder]

wow you are so lucky you are comfortable talking about that stuff, IM NOT.

[krzwis]

takes practise...lots of practise



eventully the blushing goes away and so does embarasment

same with public speaking/acting
takes work to get use to

[Pikmin_day]

Whatever you do be carful i know girls ive dated a few they are very fragile there is a way when u become to comfetable such as openly talking about sexual things\or for me talking about sex at all\
[i will never have sex etc. until im married]