She's back, and that's bad news

[thepieman]

I think this is the right place for this post, sorry if it isn't.

Anyway, about two years ago I had this girlfriend who I really fell in love with. I respected her, but she never did the same to me. She cheated on me, and used me on a number of occasions, once even to prove to someone that she wasn't a lesbian to her so called mates. But not long after I finally finished with her, she moved schools.

However, two years on, she's come back to my school. I know what she did was wrong, and I haven't been in a relationship since. But I know what I'm like, and I don't want to fall for her again. Yet I fear that I might do.

What should I do? Should I talk to her, or just ignore her? I don't want a repeat of past problems.

[Grey fox]

If you want to be friends, talk to her, but under no circumstances let yourself be taken in by her again, it will only lead to you being upset!

Some people it is very hard to get over though, i'm only just over my ex, and we broke up 3 years ago!

[Jagador]

Don't no fall for her. She is like a succubus, so no. Remain friends if you want just for friendlt conversations, but nothing more. If she persists to become BF and GF, then ignore her completely. No one should be used like that in a relationship.

[Θάνατος]

I think you should be careful don't be a jerk to her but at the same time don't be too friendly either. One thing that you might want to do is talk to her and tell her you feeling and how you felt when she did all this stuff to you.

All I am saying is be really careful and don't trust her.

[IAMWILL]

Don't let yourself get carried away with her like you did before. Be a friend, and nothing more. If you find yourself hitting on her or flirting, take a step back and talk to yourself. This girl hurt you, badly. She had her chance, and she ruined it. Not saying she can't be nice or anything, but avoid all relationships.

[thepieman]

Thanks for the advice.

I had my first sociology lesson today and she's in my class. We didn't have a conversation, but she was messing saying "Stephen tuck that shirt in" (It's the rule at our school which no one really follows). I just laughed. I won't let myself fall for her again. Besides, a lot has changed since I we were bf and gf. I've gone through more in puberty, while at the time I didn't know I was bi - she probably wouldn't take that well, seen as she used me to prove she wasn't lesbian once.

Thanks again for your advice. I'd be a fool to fall for her again, but I'll be nice to her, I'm not going to be a jerk.