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ShinigamiMaiden
September 7th, 2009, 09:54 AM
my 'friend' who knew i self harmed told my other friend who i specificly asked NOT to and now she knows and i don't feel comfortable around her any more. apprently she already knew but she didnt know for sure and she was only guessing cause nobody told her and she didnt SEE. the point is that i can't trust this person anymore.
RaeNose
September 7th, 2009, 10:01 AM
:(
Trust is a very easy thing to be broken, and a very difficult thing to build back up. I know it hurts to lose a friend that way. On the other hand, you could just be pissed that she could betray you that way.
Either feeling hurts and neither one is very much fun.
Everything will be ok; it will all get better in the end.
If there's anyway to rebuild that relationship, try to find it. In a world of enemies, we need to keep as many friends as we can.
Project Delta
September 7th, 2009, 11:41 AM
All that pops to mind is
Trust is so harshly gained, but so easily taken away
Hanabanana
September 11th, 2009, 06:03 PM
I know exactly how you guys feel, I told my bestest friend and she seemed totally cool with it and was helping me, next thing I get my mum asking me about it and it turns out my friend told her mum who told mine, even though I told her not too and she said she wouldn't. Now I don't tell her anything which sucks so much cause she's such a great mate who I now feel I can't trust x
dstnyisurs
September 11th, 2009, 10:43 PM
im glad to see your back on here, lucy. glad in a sense that i was concerned about you.
try talking to her, telling her how much that hurt her, and that even though it is wrong, she needs to understand that cutting is a personal thing and you need to be ready for people to know and you need to decide who knows.
it hurts when a friend betrays you, i know that very well.
but maybe there was a good reason, maybe she was concerned about you, maybe she didnt know what else to do.
my advice is to talk to her. talk it out. you have every right to not want to confide in her anymore, but it may lessen the pain by knowing the reasons behind the betrayal.
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