19 yeards old i lost my fun way.

[kika12]

im 19 years and i feel like i lost the most of my teenage years:confused: like i dont live enough of them i drop school in 2007 and then i came back in 2008 but i drop school again in september of 2008 so i feel like i past a year and half without friends and without doing the things that teens do i feel like i grow up so fast and feel so older mentally i came to school again but i dont know is a feeling of melancholy for what i could have done.

for the fun and times i could have is so extrange i feel sad because right know i feel so mature like i dont have time to act so cheerfully like i could act two years ago or one year ago.past and time has gone and is hitting me realize that i can't do anything.that i have grow up and i dont live my youth because know i am in a more adult world for me i see youth teenagers i envy them because they have the time for be silly and fun.

is above all a melancholy feeling.but is killing me.

i dont know i feel like i want to drop out school again because i feel sad really sad.what can i do???

[Grey fox]

Find someone who is very immature, and just have a giggle!

Teenage years are pretty terrible anyway.

My advice, put on some cheesy nostalgic music (Think Steps, S club 7 , Atomic Kitten etc) and just piss about! I suggest watching silly teen flicks, baking, inventing crazy dances and just having a real good time.

Just because you're 19 doesn't mean you can't act your shoe size rather then your age anymore :P

[Sapphire]

Tbh you just have to get a grip.
You created this situation on your own and so instead of forming a solution (which is far from difficult may I add) you pity yourself.

Just loosen up and have a laugh with friends.
If you spend your time wrapped up in how mature you are, how their humour is beneath you blah blah blah then you won't find any enjoyment.

[surrealwaking]

I know what you mean. I'm 20 now and i still feel like in some way I wasted my 'fun' years worrying about school and not upsetting my parents. I was a wuss, so I never did anything crazy, and I regret that. I still sends me to dark places thinking of the 'wasted' time.

However.

What I am now finding out is that the 20s are even crazier and more fun, mainly because you're a legal adult XD. It is NEVER too late to have fun and be crazy. Pretend you are 30 now looking back on your 20's. Do you want to regret not having fun in your 'younger' years? Find some people that make you laugh your ass off and enjoy it. Make yourself go if they invite you somewhere, eventually it will become second nature.

I still have to force myself to be social, but it's better than being alone wishing you had had more fun in the past while wasting the present.

[clone]

less time talking more time going crazy and making friends