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[Freshprince]

i dont know why but sometimes i think some guys look good..I would NEVER be gay or bi i just and a girlfriend about a month ago..is it just hormones?? will they go away..and soon bc its really weird

[RenamedUser]

You can find a male attractive without necessarily being gay or bi.

[Jagador]

Dude.. just because you see a guy and you say.. "He's good looking" doesn't mean your gay or bi, you can just see beauty in others is all. Nothing to be afraid of. However if you get boners for looking at a attractive guy, then you are gay or bi.

[thepieman]

It's most likely that you're hormones are causing you to be sexually curious for a while. If you were gay, you'd have both sexual and emotional attraction to guys. If you were bi you'd have both sexual and emotional attraction to both guys and girls.

So if you feel weird about these feelings, then you are most likely straight, and it's the hormones that are causing these attractions. Only you can tell though, so wait for a bit, and don't be ashamed about how you feel.

[RenamedUser]

However if you get boners for looking at a attractive guy, then you are gay or bi.

Well... not always. It could be an indicator I suppose.

[JackOfClubs]

You're just curious. Your hormones are raging. Its puberty, there is nothing wrong with you, and you are most likely not gay or bi.

[Raynes]

As a human being, you can tell the difference between ugly and beauty in any human being, male or female. If a man looks attractive to you, it means he's probably attractive. Unless you really want to get a guy in bed, and are straight up attracted to them, you aren't gay. It's not puberty, weirdness, or anything, it's just natural.

[Mr. Awesome]

Looks like you figured this one out all by yourself............. Answer= Hormones

Now you are not gay or bi unless you have an emotional and phisical attraction to the male species

[ACQD139F83J]

I think you need to get over a certain level of homophobia. Why do you see the need to classify yourself as gay/bi/straight? If you like someone enough ask them out - does it matter if they're male of female?

[YourFriend]

Dude.. just because you see a guy and you say.. "He's good looking" doesn't mean your gay or bi, you can just see beauty in others is all. Nothing to be afraid of. However if you get boners for looking at a attractive guy, then you are gay or bi.

No. You can get boners if looking at guys and be curious. You probably aren't gay or bi, and yes it's just hormones.

[Skeln]

It's hormones. All guys go through it, just moist wont admit it in real life. I personally think this is because we see something on another guy that we would like on our body, so we think it's attractive because with most teens they only want attractive partson their body...so yeah that's my little theory and I'm sticking to it.

All in all, don't worry because gay/bi is when you have emotional attractions to someone of the opposite sex. Physical attractions, well as I said if you see something you want on your body, then you're attracted to it.

[Ortizitthisone]

It doesn't make you gay if you think certain guys look good, so let's get that out of the way. What would make you gay would be to have a sexual (and emotional) preference for men over women.

Certain people are just attractive. Male and female, doesn't matter. I think we all have seen guys that we have thought were good-looking, we're just afraid to vocalize it most of the time because of the social stigma attached to it. It's also normal to want to experiment sexually with guys. That kind of behavior is very common for us teens. As far as those feelings going away? They may, they may not. But don't be embarrassed about it!

[Giles]

Hey, im bi (pretty much gay) and I find some girls really hot. It doesnt make you gay/bi its just hormones... Our race is designed to be able to see beauty.

[bowlheadhere]

Just because you see a guy as attractive doesn't mean you are "gay" or "bi". Finding males as attractive just means you see them to look better than other males. It is like saying "THAT DOG IS SOOOOO CUTE! O NO?! Am I anisexual (attracted to animals like being straight/bi/gay but with animals)?!?!?" It just means that you see them to be like an attracitve dog, rather than an ugly dog (in a sense). It is normal to see anyone as attractive, just because you are straight doesnt mean that you only find females attractive.

By the way, it kind of sounds like you are possibly scared to be gay or bi. There is nothting to be scared of. You should just be yourself and if you were meant to be gay or bi, so be it. Dont let society scare you to think that by being out of the ordinary is wrong or anything to be scared of. Just be yourself and let life the course it wants to take.