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xxxdarkxxx
September 5th, 2009, 03:10 PM
i want to have sex but i dont have a girlfriend and it makes me mad i realy want to have sex . all the girl;s in my school hate me cause of my ts is there a way i can get a girlfriend and then have sex with plz explain how i can get a girl to cause girls dont like my ts. (ts is tourrete sydrome) :(:(:(:(

Cloud
September 5th, 2009, 03:23 PM
/facepalm
if you want a girlfriend for the sole purpose of sex then you really dont deserve one
try respecting a girl and actually showing you care instead of trying to get in their pants straight away

thepieman
September 5th, 2009, 03:28 PM
/facepalm
if you want a girlfriend for the sole purpose of sex then you really dont deserve one
try respecting a girl and actually showing you care instead of trying to get in their pants straight away

Agreed. Try getting to know a girl first and don't come across desperate. Talk to her and always make sure she is happy. Make sure you don't just use her for sex - your gf deserves to be treated better than that.

Jagador
September 5th, 2009, 05:16 PM
A relationship should not be used for sex. If you just want sex, hire a hooker. A girlfriend relationship is for 2 people who like each other and love each other (to an extent). If the relationship goes wrong, they break up, but a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship will never be about sex alone (unless the you and the girl is desperate).

JackOfClubs
September 5th, 2009, 06:11 PM
A girl's sole purpose in life is not to have sex. It that is your idea of a relationship, then you are seriously messed up. Try being kind, and compassionate to girls, and try asking them out when you have gotten a good relationship with her.

The Joker
September 5th, 2009, 07:03 PM
Contrary to popular belief, girls aren't just for sex. They have emotions too. And, if you do get a girlfriend, she might not want to have sex with you right away. Don't do anything that doesn't want to do.

Mr. Awesome
September 5th, 2009, 07:16 PM
Theres not really much to add to the above posts

May i suggest if you are nervous, to get some of these girls to add you on a social networking site or msn. This will give you and them a chance to get to know eachother better.

Oh yeah 'DO NOT THINK OF WOMEN AS SEX OBJECTS'

ACQD139F83J
September 6th, 2009, 02:40 AM
Stop thinking or caring about sex and you might have a slight chance of getting a girlfriend in a few years. With this attitude, you don't have a hope...

daneprattis
September 6th, 2009, 02:40 AM
I completley agree, you cant just have a gf for the sole perpose of having sex, u need to respect their feelings, and im girls wont go out with you because of ur condition, than i don't see why you would want to go out with them, when you have a gf you need to respect their feelings and vice versa.

YourFriend
September 6th, 2009, 04:46 AM
/facepalm
if you want a girlfriend for the sole purpose of sex then you really dont deserve one
try respecting a girl and actually showing you care instead of trying to get in their pants straight away

Agreed 100%

Skeln
September 6th, 2009, 03:34 PM
Yeah, as others said girls aren't just for sex.

As for your condition, well I have a friend with that, although she's a girl. But she's really nice and I'm glad to be her friend and so I think that if you're honest and try to be yourself then you'll make friends left and right, and maybe one day you'll catch a girl's attention.

We truely can't give you advice on how to get a girlfriend, because every girl is different and everyone has different like and don't likes, so if some don't like you then who cares? There's bound to be people around you who will be willing to be your friends as long as you're honest and you try to be yourself.

As for you wanting to have sex...oin the club. It's members...oh I'ld say just about every teenager on this planet. You just have to wait for the right person though. If you turn out to be like those guys who just try to act cool and attract the attnetion of girls for your own exual mpleasure...well I think it'ld be interresting to see how you make a decent living. Just try focusing on doing well in school and think about relationships later on in your life. School should be your first priority, otherwise you wont be able to make a living to support a family, thsu you wont have a decent family.

Grey fox
September 6th, 2009, 03:38 PM
i want to have sex but i dont have a girlfriend and it makes me mad i realy want to have sex . all the girl;s in my school hate me cause of my ts is there a way i can get a girlfriend and then have sex with plz explain how i can get a girl to cause girls dont like my ts. (ts is tourrete sydrome) :(:(:(:(

Girls don't dislike you for your TS, they dislike you because they know you're only after them for your own amusement and have no actual feelings for them.

Sadly for you, until you grow up and learn to respect women, you are not going to get any.

Giles
September 6th, 2009, 06:16 PM
Don't try and get in a relationship for sex. Get in a relationship because you like/love the person. Then if your both comfortable with the idea, try the whole sex thing.

tomy
September 6th, 2009, 08:56 PM
That is very hard. You should just tell them that you have tourttes and you want go on a date. But wait till you know some of them, very well. Maybe you can get them flowers or something, when my dad did that to my mom... my mom loved it :) . After when you get a girlfriend (which don't worry because you'll get one :) ) Just don't ask them to have sex with you.. Wait till the time is right... And you'll know. Then give it a shot with her.

Best of luck...

:P my mom always tells me that when i ask about sex.... rofl... lol.... kinda weird.. ;P

Tom!

life is like a dallor, you don't know how to spend it.

RaeNose
September 6th, 2009, 09:09 PM
Calum read my mind.
There is a key word that you need to learn the definition of: prudence.
But hey, you may find someone who is willing to do that for you, it's not unheard of.
Skanky, but not unheard of.
But the flowers is a good idea. I mean, if you find a girl who likes flattery and being spoiled.