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[diamond jetstream]

heres my dilema,I have this friend and recently we became bf and bf and i want to go all the way with him but he isnt ready and i just feel like ripping his clothes off every time we are alone i dont want to come on too strong but does anyone have any advice on the situation, im desperate?:whoops:

[ackmedsgirl666]

ok well forst of all i know you have urges( we all do)
try and take it slow and wait it out and see what happens. if it comes a time where you both decide thats what you want to do and take the next step then be my guest. but rhetorically we can;t control our emotions, or feelings around the sex world. but whatever you decide is ok too!!!

[themanwhoneverwould]

All i can say is wait till he is ready. I am sure it will be more enjoyable for you both when you are both willing and no one feels uncomfortable.

[nick]

If you love and respect him, and dont just lust after him, then you must respect his choice and be prepared to wait and go at his speed. If you really love him then he will be worth waiting for.

[Jagador]

Sex is something that shouldn't be rushed, but people do it anyway unfortunately. Since you are bf and bf, it means you 2 have a connection with each other and love each other. Respect the one you love, and all will turn out ok. Don't rush him, and wait. Waiting will be your problem but, tough, you have to deal with it. It will turn out for the good because it will be more enjoyable

[RenamedUser]

Try not to focus on sex too much; enjoy each other's company for now, and wait 'till the time is right.

[Blue63]

Exactly, don't focus on sex. There are still a lot of other you can do while respecting his decision. You can still kiss, and from someone who's never kissed anyone before, that would seem very satisfying :P Bottom line respect his decision, things will happen, but it will be better when you are both comfortable.

[diamond jetstream]

thanks heaps i guess ill have to wait it out untill he is ready:yes:

[YourFriend]

Okay i have a bf and i know how you feel. If he doesn't want to have sex with you yet, respect his decision, when he wants to, he'll tell you. Don't push him 'cause that might end badly.

[MichaelAdams1993]

I agree, and as embarassing as it sounds you may want to talk to him about it, not sure if you have yet or not, cause he may feel the same way or be able to help you with it. It is completely normal to feel this way but don't let it take control. And of course make sure you are carefull if it comes time for something to happen.

[diamond jetstream]

thanks everyone.we talked and on his birthday next month we are going to go all the way.B)