I am not ready!

[Viral Death]

Okay today me (13) and my girlfriend (14) were going to have sex. Her cousin which is my friend gave me a condom. I dont mind that we were going to have safe-sex. But I did not feal ready I sat and twittled my thumbs. I was scared, shy, and nervous. Now she is pissed at me because we did not have sex and texted me and said I need to make up for her lost time saying that I need to make-out with her during the parade. I dont mind making out but I feal like shit because I am not ready for her.


But the point of this is post here if you are not ready for sex

[ackmedsgirl666]

ok i had foreced sex once a few years back
even now whenever any of my boyfriends/girlfriends bring up us taking the relationship further like sex i always back down because i am extremely afraid of something going wrong. regardless take this from me
NEVER LET ANYONE FORCE YOU INTO IT !!!!!!!!

[Viral Death]

I didn't I turned him down. I feal like I want to cut because of this but when I try I throw the razor away from me to prevent this

[Aves]

Don't be forced, do it when you are 100% ready.

[ackmedsgirl666]

its ok
if your not ready no sweat, i always used to say i'd wait until mariage but really you can't control rape. but go with what your heart desires, if you choose to wait to share it with someone you trully love then thats your desiion
but personally if i were you( which i'm not)
i'd wait for the perfect person :)

[Viral Death]

I love her dearly with my whole heart and someone I would spend my life with. But I am not ready!

[ackmedsgirl666]

i feel the same way. i was at times tempted to sleep with brandon because i felt that he was the one for me that i wanted to spend the rest of my life wiht. well i was wrong, he cheated and elept around behind my back and hes a major asshole( just whatever you do don't make the same mistake i did)

[Viral Death]

Okay thanks for the advice

[ackmedsgirl666]

np
PM me if anything else is on ur mind

[Viral Death]

Well today we went hiking alittle made it 1/4 the way and sat and cuddled then walked back to my house cuddling and when we sat in the driveway for my friend to pick her up we kissed! Yes finally our first kiss

[Mikey]

Just tell her you don't feel ready.

[Viral Death]

I let her know

[BuryYourFlame]

It is perfectly normal, even wiser, not to feel ready at the age of 13. There will definitely come a time when you are going to be so happy you didn't do it then. I suggest you have a talk with your girlfriend about what you are comfortable with, and if she doesn't accept that then, this may sound harsh but, I would seriously consider getting a new girlfriend...

[Jagador]

It is perfectly normal, even wiser, not to feel ready at the age of 13. There will definitely come a time when you are going to be so happy you didn't do it then. I suggest you have a talk with your girlfriend about what you are comfortable with, and if she doesn't accept that then, this may sound harsh but, I would seriously consider getting a new girlfriend...

I couldn't have said it any better..=)

[Viral Death]

I said I all ready told her and she was cool with it

[Grey fox]

Well today we went hiking alittle made it 1/4 the way and sat and cuddled then walked back to my house cuddling and when we sat in the driveway for my friend to pick her up we kissed! Yes finally our first kiss

WAIT A MINUTE!! You were trying to have sex, but hadn't even kissed before then!?!?!?!?

FFS get your priorities in order!

Sex makes babies, that is all it is designed to do. Unless you are ready to be a father, don't do it!

Also, if she's pressuring you into it, she isn't really caring about you.

My boyfriend is 17 and he's still not ready for sex, and though ive been sexually active for years, I understand this and I am willing and caring enough to let him decide when he is ready.

[Viral Death]

God people read the first post then the one about when we kissed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Get the facts right

[Grey fox]

God people read the first post then the one about when we kissed!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Get the facts right

This thread makes no sense!

Is is the same girl who you tried to have sex with, that you have only very recently kissed for the first time?

And you also refer to your girlfriend as "him" - though I could be mistaken.

Please lay out the simple facts.

Do you want advice or what?