straying from my sexuality

[ackmedsgirl666]

i'm not really sure how to word this
ok so i'm kinda straying from what i was
for a while i thought i was bi-sexual and then i had a lesbian phase
but i seem to be stuck. sure i have enjoyed my many experiences when i was first coming out but now i'm no longer sure. if I see a girl on the street i'll check her out and things will go through my mind but since my last bad relationship with a girl I'm not sure if i could handle making out or doing anything with another. i like girls and guys openly but I;m just not sure about myself anymore.. hope this makes sense.
any ideas??

[Mr. Awesome]

The only thing i can think of to say is to follow your heart and not your head

[ackmedsgirl666]

ok thx
thats a very touching piece of advice
i'm just not sure in what i believe in anymore

[Jagador]

Hmm.. i believe that you should not do what you think, but do what you desire

[ackmedsgirl666]

in my heart i desire women mainly
but i can never make myself believe that
and i find myself straying away fro, what i trully want

[thepieman]

I really understand your problem. I've been in a similar position myself after a bad relationship with a girl.

Maybe you should just wait a bit and see how you feel. Don't stray from your sexuality, but maybe rediscover it. All that matters is that you feel comfortable with who you are.

[Cromm]

Regardless of sexuality, it's always hard getting over a bad break-up; but if you let it shake you up too badly, it'll affect every other part of your life. Don't let it - it's not worth it. I know that's trite advice, but it's the best I can manage. Love shouldn't be something that haults your life, even when it jerks you around.

As for your own sexuality... what does it matter? Gay, straight, bi, 'other'... just be with whoever you fancy, and let the world have it's own lables. Identify yourself as "human".