me and my girlfriend

[brownpeds]

i was reading a book on relations yesterday and noticed how diffrent i am from her. shes the type that doesnt like to be tied down, yet she says wants to get married, but she seems like she would be happier of single, and im the jealous type of guy, and according to the book she likes to have a bit of freedom, but just a couple of weeks ago she was dancing with some guy and he sliped his number into her butt pocket and left his hand there, she says her cousin forced her to dancing and she tried to move his hand and shes usually honest but i hardly believe it. I Love Her alot, its been so hard cus this happens frequently but she says its not a big deal, but the fact that i was on vacation missing her and she was with another man and his hands were on her ass, pisses me off.

Im tierd of going through all this bull, though i love her like hell im thinking about breaking up with her, i honestly dont know what to do anymore, i lover her and she loves me, sometimes i dont think so but at some moments i think she loves me more.

I dont know what to do, plz tell me what u think i should do ????

[BlackenedSilver]

:arrow2: Relationships and Dating.

Try telling her how you feel, talk it out with her and see how you both feel afterwards. If you still feel the safe after hearing what she has to say then break up with her, but if not then maybe give her another chance. Or just skip everything and just give her another chance, because everyone does deserve one, She did say she tried to move his hand afterall she might not be lying.

[Mr. Awesome]

:arrow2: Relationships and Dating.

Try telling her how you feel, talk it out with her and see how you both feel afterwards. If you still feel the safe after hearing what she has to say then break up with her, but if not then maybe give her another chance. Or just skip everything and just give her another chance, because everyone does deserve one, She did say she tried to move his hand afterall she might not be lying.


Im with BlackenedSilver here. The key to relationships is communication. You have to talk to her seriously about this not a 2minute conversation of yeah and uh-huh. Tell her how your feeling and what her actions make you feel.

Good luck with your decision

[ackmedsgirl666]

ok well first thing now adays relationships can not be left untrusted( my bf used to cheat on me all the time and i ended it)
well with you i guess all you ca do is wait. maybe even talk 2 her. if she keeps it up however you just maybe have to end it so you don't end up hurt in the long run. just stay strong my friend and make the desion you hope is best for not only you but the relationship

[Ortizitthisone]

I think reading a book on relationships was your first mistake, unless it was a book specifically about teenagers. Contrary to what we may think, teen relationships are very different from adult relationships. But the key to any relationship is communication. You have concerns. I'm sure she does too. Talking to her about it will not do any harm. Tell her what's on your mind, and LISTEN TO HER when she does the same. See where it goes from there. Good luck!

[Contra]

I don't think you can learn how to control a relationship by reading a book, relationships need to be worked out by the people involved in it, because each and every relationships are different.
If you do want to go on with that girl, you must tell her what you saw and try to clarify that. If she didn't try to stop the other guy from putting his hand on her butt pocket (among others), you need to decide, either you tell her not to hurt you again and you continue the relationship, or you break up the relationship, because girls like that are no good to anyone, but it's up to you!
Hope I was helpful! :D

[Jagador]

Hmmm... first thing about a relationship is you really shouldn't base it off a book. A relationship is all about experience. Once you have experienced either a good/bad one, the next time, you can fix the mistakes. For you case, talk to her about your feelings, as said above, and make sure she understands. The only problem comes is if she continues this behavior, then i suggest dumping her, but until then, give her a 2nd chance, because everyone deserves one to correct their mistake.

[Grey fox]

Firstly - have you never heard of the saying, opposites attract?

Secondly - Believe what you know and what your heart and head say, not a silly little book.

If you really like her, and you have a good relationship going, why risk ruining it?
Maybe show her the book too, and say it's made you think, and that you wish to know her opinions on it.