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annalea
September 3rd, 2009, 03:29 PM
I have this friend, and last year we only had one class together but it kept us close, and she is one of my best friends.
all of a sudden, this year, when we found out that we had no classes together, she is telling me that she thinks we will drift apart because we barely see each other, we have no time to hang out, etc. etc.
the way she said it feels like she wants the friendship to drift apart.. but i dont, because she is my best friend and important to me! now it seems a bit better, and we are still close, but she brings it up every once in a while, and every time she says it... it hurts.
I have had no idea how to respond to her... :what:

Any suggestions on how I should react to this, or what I should do?

JackOfClubs
September 3rd, 2009, 05:48 PM
Well, try and spend some time with her. This happened to me last year, and it is very hard to deal with. If possible, talk to her at lunch, and before and after school. That should help.

Ryhanna
September 3rd, 2009, 08:57 PM
Find another way to see her. I had this same problem, my best friend and I had to go to different high school and I was afriad we'd drift apart and we slowly did and now he's moved and didn't tell me and has basically cut off all contact and I feel really abandoned. So be quick to save your friendship

Contra
September 4th, 2009, 07:03 AM
You must say to her that you will still be friends, you can meet after school, and talk on lunch time, or other intervals. Don't waste this friendship away!

mrmcdonaldduck
September 4th, 2009, 07:08 AM
just talk to her during lunch and see if you can talk online, over the phone etc.

Jagador
September 5th, 2009, 05:29 PM
Talk to her whenever you can. I keep in touch with my besite through txting. but i find my bestie a bit two faced...=T but yea, txting, call her, organize a day to hang out and such

annalea
October 11th, 2009, 08:28 PM
we're okay now i guess.. its tough tho