gay goggles

[tommycg95]

how do u spot gay people. Im bi and theres this kid in school who keeps looking at me. he's always looking at me and hes not that bad looking but how do i know if hes bi or gay or just wierd?
Are there any signs i should look for?
What happens if he comes out to me?
Im sorta in the closet at my school but people still call me gay so how do i hide it when we keep looking at each other in class b/c im not ready to come out?
If you were in my situation what would you do?

ThanX:X)(X:X

[Maverick]

The best and sure way of knowing is to just ask.

[Jagador]

umm.. i get that at school kinda often. There is a kid at my school who followed me everywhere.. even to the bathroom... its kinda creepy. I just ignore him even though he is decent looking.

[tripolar]

The only way to know for sure is no ask him, like Anthony said. Don't ask everyone if he is or isn't. Now if your not sure if you should straight up ask him. Hint it towards him or better, become friends and you will become closer.

You also said what if he comes out to you, no big deal don't you want that to happen anyway. About looking at each other in class, just do it discretely and you'll be fine.

Good luck with him.

[iceyfresh]

i would talk to him and ask him if hes gay after your aquainted.

[Fourth Dimension]

just become friends with him

[diamond jetstream]

get closer and then when your friends ask him. this should be in the help and advice,teen sexuality forum:P

[themanwhoneverwould]

Befriend him first, and see where it goes. You may hate each other after 5 mins, or love each other for another 5 years. WHO KNOWS!
I always find its easy to give others advice, but when its you in the situation you can't come up with the answer and need help.

[Jake11]

Become friends first.

[INFERNO]

You could try to see how he interacts with other people, although it may not give you a definitive answer. The better and easier way would be to approach him and begin having a conversation, watch his body language, what he says, etc... . The easiest way is to ask him and ensure he is truthful on his answer.

[BlackenedSilver]

:arrow2: Teen sexuality

[The Joker]

The only way to know is to ask.

[MoveAlong]

All gay people have an unseeable aura around them. If you eat all your carrots, your eyes will become so healthy that you will be able to see this aura and tell which people are gay.

Just kidding.

Personally, I'd befriend him, or hang out with one of my friends that's also his friend while they're hanging out. That's a good way to meet people (friends or bf/gfs). Get to know him to see if you even like his personality. Then I'd look for signs like feminine traits and interests. Be his friend and don't be rude or pushy. so yeah.

[Ryhanna]

if you just go up to him and say "hey dude are you gay, wanna go out with me?" even if he does like you you'll probably scare him off you. so just talk to him and when you feel comfortable enough and you feel that he is, just casually bring it up in conversation - but dont be too out there with it though.
This question should probably be in teen sexuality.

[metallicamaniac]

Not being against gay at all, but since people think you are straight, all you gotta do is go "Dude are you gay or what,because you keep looking at me" say it in a sarcastic voice.

[Eagle1]

The best and sure way of knowing is to just ask.

agreed:yes:

[bowlheadhere]

I agree. Their is no way to really tell if a person is gay or bi. Their is a vibe that we can really kind of sense, but it is not for sure. He may be looking at you and think that you are also kind of attracitve. If you want to know the truth, you should just ask. I might also suggest that you become closer friends with him before you ask.

[tripolar]

Not being against gay at all, but since people think you are straight, all you gotta do is go "Dude are you gay or what,because you keep looking at me" say it in a sarcastic voice.

Do not do that, because then you'll scare him for sure and he might think your homophobic.

First be friends with him, then you'll know him better, then make your move.

[The Joker]

Sarcasm will make him think you're homophobic, and definitely scare him away. That's a horrible idea.