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Lilith
September 1st, 2009, 03:22 PM
No. This is not about the movie.


If you're wondering how this project started, it was found by a hypnotherapist on someone’s blog and she recommended it to her self harming patients, it's gradually made it's way onto the internet and some communities.

The Butterfly Effect is something that helped me quit cutting and I think might find a place here at Virtual Teen to help others that have a true drive to stop harming themselves. It's a way of having support, right there on your skin.

The idea is simple. The self-harmer simply draws a butterfly on their place(s) of self-harm and, if the butterfly fades without them self-harming it means it has lived and flown away, giving them a sense of achievement. Whereas if they do self-harm with the butterfly there; they will have to wash it off. If that does happen, they can start again by drawing a new one on.

The idea has also been adapted into the butterfly stages- drawing first a caterpillar, cocoon and then butterfly. Temporary butterfly tattoos are also acceptable if you don't feel comfortable drawing one, or if you want a change from all the pen ink.

http://www.graphicsfactory.com/clip-art/image_files/tn_image/2/1320702-tn_tattoos_042.jpghttp://i243.photobucket.com/albums/ff270/GenerationSkinny/chrysalis_01b12-1.jpg?t=1251836893http://www.tattoosales.com/TattooImages/1136.jpg?rand=603425414http://www.tattoosales.com/TattooImages/1134.jpg?rand=147489243http://www.tattoosales.com/TattooImages/2145.jpg?rand=2165515



If you feel like it you can even post a picture of the caterpillar/cocoon/butterfly you're going to draw.

OnlyByTheNight.
September 1st, 2009, 03:33 PM
OMG this is a great idea, I love it. I'm go draw one now! :) +rep

aLeX..
September 2nd, 2009, 01:51 AM
that sounds like a really good idea, thank you :)

RaeNose
September 2nd, 2009, 08:39 AM
That actually sounds really interesting.
I think I might try that, seeing as how I draw on myself all the time. :D
I'll definitely stick a pic up here when I do.

Becky
September 2nd, 2009, 01:08 PM
This sounds really cool I want to start maybe in a week or so after school starts in again

piggy-wiggy
September 2nd, 2009, 01:26 PM
thats an awesome idea, im def gona try it.. :D

GreyxRainbow
September 3rd, 2009, 01:18 AM
I made a caterpillar yesterday evening. :) It looks like a childs drawing, with this huge smile on its face.. XD But I love it. I won't have to wash it of.

RaeNose
September 3rd, 2009, 08:43 AM
I'll have a pic today, I'll probably PM it to you, considering I'm not very good at drawing butterflies. But, yeah, that and some of the other stuff that's going on just makes me not feel like cutting.
Might be the people I'm talking to, but I think the butterfly helps to some degree.

Project Delta
September 3rd, 2009, 09:12 AM
One flaw to this plan is if you have a job that requires short sleeves and your place of cutting is on your forearm. You will not be able to keep it there.

GreyxRainbow
September 3rd, 2009, 09:40 AM
Yes.. I put mine on my ankle, because that is the first place I ever cut, and also the place I last cut. I can't see it trough the day, but I know that it's there, and that gives me strenght.

Project Delta
September 3rd, 2009, 09:42 AM
Good to hear Becca :)

Lilith
September 3rd, 2009, 01:15 PM
This is really good guys :D Stay strong.

Becky
September 8th, 2009, 11:44 AM
I put my catapillar on my arm he's still there actually helped me alot today I was having a bad day with urge doing good so far hoping I don't need to wash him off :)

RaeNose
September 8th, 2009, 05:51 PM
Mine flew away. :)
But I need to make a new one, because it actually sort of helped.
I'll start from a caterpillar this time.

Waiting
September 8th, 2009, 06:07 PM
if you go to recoveryourlife you can buy stick on tattoo's from there as they practice the butterfly effect.

Xunji
September 10th, 2009, 12:54 PM
Thanks, this really helped.

Becky
September 10th, 2009, 12:57 PM
:( I had to wash mine off

RaeNose
September 10th, 2009, 05:44 PM
I'm starting over. I tried just getting through the butterfly, and I did really well.
So, now I have a little fuzzy caterpillar on a branch. :D

piggy-wiggy
September 13th, 2009, 12:29 PM
i drew one on my wrist today..
*fingers crossed**
keep it up u guys.. =]

RaeNose
September 13th, 2009, 02:18 PM
My caterpillar is just about faded.
I need to work on my chrysalis.

1_21Guns
September 14th, 2009, 10:21 AM
I drew a butterfly over where I last cut, now its pretty much healed. Hope it works. Good luck to everyone else trying this too ^.^

RaeNose
September 14th, 2009, 08:01 PM
I drew my chrysalis last night. I also have the same branch on it from when it was a caterpillar. It's not bad, I guess. It's pretty cool. My caterpillar was pretty cute, though. :)