Im Confused About A Girl - Help!

[AdamTheAce]

I really really fancy a girl at my school [ we r both 14 ] and i fantasize when i j/o and i really want to ask her out but i asked her out 2 years ago at the start of secondary and she said no.

We r friends now and im really confused because i honestly want to have sex with her. she is amazing.

[nick]

I really really fancy a girl at my school [ we r both 14 ] and i fantasize when i j/o and i really want to ask her out but i asked her out 2 years ago at the start of secondary and she said no.

We r friends now and im really confused because i honestly want to have sex with her. she is amazing.
Woah there, steady on. Its fine asking her out but if you havent even done that yet its a bit soon to be talking about having sex with her. If its been 2 years since you asked before there's no harm in asking again.

[Contra]

Now you're both older, things will be different, ask her for an innocent date, and see if you can get any chances... Just think about having sex with her later. :D

[JackOfClubs]

Just ask her to the movies, or something like that. Don't even consider asking to have sex with her, that will RUIN your chances of ever going on another date. Its been tow years so you should be pretty safe asking again.

[7tweety]

My youth, take it one step at a time. Find out more about di girl before you even think about going in that direction. Looks aren't everything. Yes she may look pretty but try to find out more about her so you could have a potentially more meaningful relationship.

[problematic]

she probably doesn't know that you still fancy her i asked a girl out 3 months after the first time when she said no and she said yes and when we were going out she told me that she was completely unaware

[Justin_5001]

Not to offend you but some girls go for the looks, well at first.. soo, take some time out and consetrate on yur looks, are you uhmm "good" looking , mabey get a chick to give you sum sort of do over thing but go for it! if shr regects you dont bug her or nothing, good luck (=

[XFlyboyX]

Ask her out untill you are confident and hopefully she would be going out with you.

[Mr. Awesome]

There is no harm in asking her out. whats the worst that can happen..... she says no

[Joshm5816]

Congratulations, hormones have taken over! Having sex is probably your hormones talking. Imaging her when j/o off is also your hormones speaking. They've kicked into overdrive with you. Just don't try and force yourself on her. If you do ask her out, don't tell her that you fantasize about her and want to have sex with her. And don't try and have sex with her. If you have it when you're young, there's a good chance you will regret having it. If you do have sex, USE A CONDOM! I can't stress that enough!

[bowlheadhere]

Well, I honestly do not think you should do anything. I mean, she already turned you down before and you really do not want to ruin a good friendship. If when you two break up, things will be awkward, and you will have lost a good friend. Anyways, from what you have said, it seems as though you dont really like her as much as you want to have sex with her. It seems to me that you are only physically attracted to her, and want to get in her pants. So as far as the asking out/dating things go, I would not do anything because you do not want to ruin that good friendship you have with her, but you should be the one to chose for you are the only one who knows your true feelings for her.

As far as the sex part, I definitely recommend that you do not do anything. If you ask her to have sex, she will most likely say no, and she will tag you to be a pervert that is just friends with her in order to have sex (friends with benefits). That will DEFINITELY ruin the friendship that you have going. Also, it is my belief that sex is a symbol of love and devotion, and because we are not able to determine the idea of love from true love while we go through puberty, so I do not think it is right for you to have sex with her. I also do not think that you should have sex with her for other menal and physical reasons. Honestly (and I really do not mean to offend you) I do not think that you are ready for sex mentaly (along with most/all other teenage guys).

Those are just my thoughts, but I hope I helped you in making your decision.