View Full Version : I think my parents are getting a divorce
Curtis Before Life
September 1st, 2009, 12:35 AM
My mom keeps saying she is un happy with my dad. He is always drinking. My mom is moving and I dont know if I should stay with my dad or move with my mom.
mrmcdonaldduck
September 1st, 2009, 02:48 AM
it does sound like they are separating. but i think you should go with whoever is the better parent.
Jagador
September 1st, 2009, 03:08 AM
You have an option. When you all are in court for the divorce, they cannot control who you stay with. You get to choose which parent you wish to live with. You can stay with you mom only or your dad only. Or you can split your schedule so you do half with your dad and half with your mom. Most kids do half and half, but it is totally up to you. However, if you choose a side, be ready to give a good reason as to why you chose your mom or dad only
Triceratops
September 1st, 2009, 09:16 AM
You have a choice. Who do you feel more at ease with? Who do you feel most comfortable with? Who do you feel more safe with? Who do you feel happier with? Give it a long, good thought and decide between the both.
In my honest opinion, judging by your post, if I were in your shoes I would live with your mom as you mentioned your dad is always drinking which will cause many problems living with him. Although I know nothing about your background story and experiences with your parents so your decision is going to be the most reasonable out of anyones here.
Mikey
September 1st, 2009, 09:21 AM
They are gettign a divorce or maybe jsut being apart for a little. Sorry.:[.
You should go with the one that's more stable because they would be the one witha better environment to grow up in.
JackOfClubs
September 1st, 2009, 03:22 PM
You should go with whoever you feel the most at home with. It should be your choice, so use it.
Nihilus
September 1st, 2009, 09:50 PM
I can understand why your mom is doing it. Parents that drink (like your dad) can be un pleasant to be with. I'd say go with your mom if it happens.
Eagle1
September 2nd, 2009, 12:09 AM
You have a choice. Who do you feel more at ease with? Who do you feel most comfortable with? Who do you feel more safe with? Who do you feel happier with? Give it a long, good thought and decide between the both.
In my honest opinion, judging by your post, if I were in your shoes I would live with your mom as you mentioned your dad is always drinking which will cause many problems living with him. Although I know nothing about your background story and experiences with your parents so your decision is going to be the most reasonable out of anyones here.
Agreed:yes:
jamie.go
September 12th, 2009, 02:45 AM
i think you have a choice..if you think you get along with your mum so you better be with her..
but if theres a way that you can talk to them tell them that you dont want them to get seperated and have a broken family..:mad:
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Jagador
September 12th, 2009, 07:07 PM
In my honest opinion, judging by your post, if I were in your shoes I would live with your mom as you mentioned your dad is always drinking which will cause many problems living with him.
Actually, when a parent drinks, it can mean many reason. It is either he/she is depressed, or he/she is drinking his pain away or he/she is a alcoholic. Once either one of those go away, he/she will stop. Unless he/she is a complete alcoholic who can't control themselves, thats a different story
Obscene Eyedeas
June 12th, 2010, 02:09 AM
:locked: please do not bump old threads
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