dont know what to do

[Beautiful Obsession]

right im really stuck, this lad asked me out, kept tellin me how much he loves me and doesnt feel right without me, and i know this is shady as fuk. but i said yeah to get him off my back, but then i split up with him and said my head it fcked up atm and cant deal with a bf (wich is true) but i dont like him in that way only as a mayte,

Anyway since then he keeps texting me sayin we need to be together, he cant bare to be apart from me, and he lovess me more than nything.. its so hard, iv tried sayin i only want to be friend but 10 mins l8a he starts again.

i keep thinkin he will go off me, but he sais hes liked me for 2 years, but i really dont like him in that way. i dont want to lie to him again, and he also keeps askin me to go to the cinema togetherr, 1st it was so we cud get to no each other, cuddle up on back row and shit even though iv told him i dont want to go out with him, and now its "as m8s" but he will try something i know it.

and also when we go back to school, were in the same english class and he keeps sayin hes gunna sit by me!!

[Mikey]

Maybe you should try to just explain this to him... it would help.

[Aves]

Explanations are good. :D Lol.

[Beautiful Obsession]

iv tried, by saying i only like him as a mate etc, but the next day hes textin me sayin its breakin him up not bein with me plz giv him another change etc etc x

[Mikey]

He should deffinately move on. Maybe you should explain your not interested in him right now and just want to be friends. Saying it over and over will finally get him to listen.

[Beautiful Obsession]

iv bin doin that fr a few months, but hopefully he'll realise soon that i really dont want to go out with him.. might change my number lol x

[Aηdy]

To me it sounds like he's being very immature about the situation, which makes me wonder what he actually likes you for. But without going into that too much, all you can do is explain the best you can how you feel and tell him where he stands. Then distance yourself from him as much as you can.

[Beautiful Obsession]

Thankss Babeee.. Ly'x

[Aηdy]

Thankss Babeee.. Ly'x

Anytime honey. After time he should eventually get the message and leave you alone, or accept that you can only be mates :)

[Beautiful Obsession]

heres hopingg lol x

[Mikey]

Gl hollie. Best of luck.

[just-another-guy]

yah i would say talk to him and enplane that you don't really have the time to have a bf and it would be just too much right now (that i am inquiring and it sounds as its true) also maybe tell him that you need a little space for a while and that you could go to the movies with you him and some other friends you know just to make sure he doesn't try anything

[Jagador]

try talking to him one on one again, and tell him your feelings. If he continues to persist, just ignore him and get as far away from him as possible. i would suggest blocking his number on your phone if he is constantly bugging you that way

[Contra]

Besides talking with him about what you're really feeling and get him to understand that, maybe you should say that if he really loves you, he should stop trying. Because, as far as you know, maybe he's just trying to get inside your pants...

[Beautiful Obsession]

thanks for all ya advicee.. well yesterdayy we had a rther big argument and he ssaid he doesnt wanna be my mayte.. at least i wont have him buggin me no more. i wantd to be m8s with him but i guess i would rather that than being stalked!!

thanks again guyss xx

[Contra]

Thank god everything turned out okay, except the part you're not mates anymore... But you're right, it's better than stalking!

[RaeNose]

True, stalkers aren't fun.
Especially one's you've broken up with who need to move on....
We all end up in that boat sooner or later.

[Beautiful Obsession]

init :)

[Aηdy]

thanks for all ya advicee.. well yesterdayy we had a rther big argument and he ssaid he doesnt wanna be my mayte.. at least i wont have him buggin me no more. i wantd to be m8s with him but i guess i would rather that than being stalked!!

thanks again guyss xx

It's probably for the best. You don't want jerks like that after you!