im coming way out

[diamond jetstream]

im planning on coming out but i dont know who to tell first. i have a bi friend who is a girl and i have heaps of friends but i think they would treat me like i have leperasy or something plz i need help:whoops::whoops:

[themanwhoneverwould]

How people at school would react is the only reason i am not coming out to the world until i am 'fully developed'

Good Luck to you! I do hope everything goes well. I would start by telling your friend who is also Bi as they are most likely to be accepting. If any 'Friends' are not going to be forgiving, then i would suggest not being friends with them. If they are prejudice against you, then why bother with them?

Tell your family, i am sure that would be less awkward than them hearing through someone else!

[confusedboy]

Like what he said... Telling your family before they find out by someone else wouldn't be too great. Also, when I came out I only told my close friends or the people who I thought should know. Luckily they've all accepted but if you come across someone who won't then brush them off.

If you need to talk more feel free to PM me.

[Eagle1]

agreed and good luck

[NextToNormal]

if i were you, i would first tell my friend who is bi. she will most likely understnad what your going through better than anyone else. then i would tell my closest friend(s). if they are truly your friends, they will accept you, gay or straight. once you are comfortable with them knowing, tell your family before they find out from some unrelated third party. telling your family is going to be the hardest thing to do. so when you do it, take a friend with you for support.
good luck!!