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JJSSHH
August 30th, 2009, 05:12 PM
so i really like girls and i dont amsometimes attracted to guys. should i like see if a good friend who has the same thing going on if he would like try sstuff with me. what do you think

sirma
August 30th, 2009, 06:04 PM
No. It might ruin friendships.

Mr. Awesome
August 30th, 2009, 08:35 PM
This all stems down to hormones at your age.

You have two choices at this stage

1. You give in to these hormones and experiment with a friend which can result in a few different outcomes

A. You and he enjoy it and you become an item
B. You feel awkward and your friendship breaks down
C. Your friend laughs at you, calls you gay, and lets everyone know
D. You enjoy a few moments growing up together and your friendship gets stronger.
E. An unexpected outcome but the above are the usual outcomes^^^^^^

2. You ignore these hormones. You do not risk your friendship with your friend being ruined. However you may always wonder what could of been.

Many people will tell you of how there friendships broke down, while others will say of how their friendships got stronger.

In the end its your decision and no one here can make it for you. You must take these things into account because this decision could have a big impact on your life.

My personal decision would be to keep these thoughts in my head and and concentrate on something else.

Good Luck with your decision and PM me if you need more advice

JackOfClubs
August 30th, 2009, 08:45 PM
It could very well ruin your relationship. Unless you are really close, I really wouldn't advise it. I would also say that you are bi, just in case you were going t ask that too :D

iceyfresh
August 30th, 2009, 09:40 PM
Its not up to us but i personally wouldn't friend ships are valuable i wouldn't try to do it.

rollwithme
August 30th, 2009, 09:43 PM
i have a friend who talks about sex. jacking off. his dick. cum. condoms. hard ons. EVERYTHING sexual.
he's not bad looking- and all the girls think he's hot.
we're like best friends but i still dont do anything with him cause i dont want to ruin the friendship we have, which is awesome, apart from the constant blabber about sex.

kdddd
August 30th, 2009, 10:20 PM
well man it could ruin your frendship

bowlheadhere
August 30th, 2009, 10:50 PM
It is your hormones.

You really souldn't just find a friend just so that you can "try stuff with them". I feel as though that would be like using them just so that you can experiment. You should never use a friend because that means that they really arent your friends and it is just bad.

Mikey
August 30th, 2009, 10:55 PM
I wouldn't try it man. It wouldn't be worth it. You could lose your friend.

JJSSHH
September 1st, 2009, 08:37 PM
k< thanks

Jagador
September 1st, 2009, 08:46 PM
Not much to say, everyone else already said what i would say... lol

YourFriend
September 2nd, 2009, 03:00 AM
I wouldn't. Too risky. Can ruin your friendship, but that's just me.

problematic
September 2nd, 2009, 06:14 PM
hmm, i would make sure that you pick someone that you think may be up to it but if he's not then make sure he's the type of guy that wouldn't tell anyone coz that could be embarresing

lolboi06
September 5th, 2009, 07:03 PM
yeah i totally agree u shouldnt try to do stuff with him. it might ruin a good friendship.

tomy
September 6th, 2009, 07:57 PM
Well, it's really up to you... But I would not try to do anything gay on him.. Friendship is very valuble. :P

Tom!