Shuld I Take Hym Back?

[lilshortzz]

Ive Been In A On Nd Off Relationship For Almost 2 Years. Actually Sept 1, Will Bee Two Yrs. We Arent Currently Together.. But I Styll Have A Lot Of Feelings For Hym. I Am In Love With Hym, But Thru Out Our Relationship We Have Faced Hard Times & Ive Been Had My Heart Broken By Hym In The Past. So Shuld I Give Our Relationship Anothaa Shot, Or Just Move On?

[Gumleaf]

well i think the best advice i can give you is to think about the reasons why the relationship has had so many problems and think about whether you have overcome these problems together or whether they will still exist if the relationship continues. if you are confident you have overcome the issues that have caused the problems, then its probably worth giving it another go.but if these problems are going to remain, its probably best for both of you to end it before you both suffer more pain when you could be happier perhaps with other people.

[Rmelnikas]

If it helps what i did i wrote down on a peice of paper Plus and Minus and then put in what the plus' of the relationship were and then put the minus' of the relationships in.
unfortunatly my minus' weighed out the plus'.

Hope it helps

[Joshm5816]

Just think about how long it has lasted 2 years is a nice chunk of time. A major problem is the on and off part of it. Is it worth breaking up and getting back together? I suggest you talk to him about this if you haven't already. Tell him, "Hey, I don't want to keep breaking up and getting back together. If you don't like it that way then you can leave." All though you said you still have feelings for him. If I was in your shoes, I would not keep the person. Having to expect when your going to break up and getting back together is horrible. And think about your future, too. Do you want to spend time with a guy who breaks up with you? There could be another guy out there who might be the one you marry. But if you stay with this guy, you might never meet him. Just think about you emotional welfare.