I'm confused about my sexuality

[Lights]

This is difficult to say really..
So basically, I feel attracted to other guys a lot. I don't feel all that attracted to girls however. Although I would happily bed a girl if the chance arose.

Am I bisexual?

[nick]

The great thing about vt is that you can say things here that you wouldnt say anywhere else. It sounds as if you could be bi, but don't rush to label your sexuality. At 13 time is on your side, so just stay cool and see where things go over a period of time. And good luck anyway.

[tripolar]

Exactly what Nick said, don't rush to put a label on yourself, at 13 you still got a long time to discover yourself.

[Lights]

Do you really think so?

[BlackenedSilver]

:arrow2: Teen sexuality.

[nick]

Yes I really think you could be bi, but I also think you could be straight and you could be gay. Its impossible to say. You've said you would have sex with a girl if an opportunity presented itself, you haven't actually said if you would have sex with another guy if an opportunity came along. And yes, I really do think there's nothing to be gained from trying to stick a label on your sexuality too soon. Just keep an open mind and be happy to be yourself.

I'm bi and have been through the same uncertainty.

[Lights]

I'd more happily have sex with another guy. However, if the oppertunity came with a girl, I think I'd do her. This might just be because I'm very interested in sex.. and want to lose my vaginity?

[tripolar]

I'd more happily have sex with another guy. However, if the oppertunity came with a girl, I think I'd do her. This might just be because I'm very interested in sex.. and want to lose my vaginity?

Would you go out with guys and girls or just one.

[Lights]

Would you go out with guys and girls or just one.

I'm not sure really.. probably both although I'm more attracted to guys.

[orangecounty]

There are aspects that pure sexual attraction can't cover. Like where do you see yourself in 20 years? With a family and a wife, or a husband? Can you emotionally connect with a guy? Can you emotionally connect with a female? You may not even know yet being so young, but sexuality isn't the end all, be all. Nobody can tell you what you want but you. Sexuality wise, it sounds as if you are probably bi leaning gay...but that is just my guess...and that could definitely change as you age.

[Θάνατος]

This is a question you might want to ask your self. It your attraction to guys just for sexual reasons or it is for emotional reasons too. I went through this when I realize that I was Bi. No two years later, I am no longer emotionally attracted to guys, I only want them for sex. I want to be in a relationship with a girl and just have guys around for sexually enjoyment.

This could also just be a stage that you are going through, at 13 your body is full of raging hormones. Just like Just Nick and tripolar have said here you are too young to be putting a label on your self. Enjoy your life of puberty hell and experiment with both guys and girls and don't worry about attaching a label to yourself.

[Jagador]

13... your too young to know for sure. Wait a few years and the answer will come

[Lights]

This is a question you might want to ask your self. It your attraction to guys just for sexual reasons or it is for emotional reasons too. I went through this when I realize that I was Bi. No two years later, I am no longer emotionally attracted to guys, I only want them for sex. I want to be in a relationship with a girl and just have guys around for sexually enjoyment.

This could also just be a stage that you are going through, at 13 your body is full of raging hormones. Just like Just Nick and tripolar have said here you are too young to be putting a label on your self. Enjoy your life of puberty hell and experiment with both guys and girls and don't worry about attaching a label to yourself.


I really appreciated reading that comment. Well I turned 14 a few weeks back. It'll be interesting to see in the years to come how I turn out.

[NickInCA]

Sexuality is not in confined to strict catigories. Straight, bi, gay. A lot of people dont perfectly fall in these catagories.
I thought this was intresting. Read this article and look at the scale:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale

[The Batman]

Please don't bump old threads :locked: