Do guys have mood swings

[paranoid]

I'm 16 and so I'm quite used to being horny 24/7, however now I'm starting to get random fits of rage- it's kinda like my whole body throbs as the anger washes over me, then I'll fantasize about injuring or killing someone -I think this may be due to me being small (I've always been bullied and never been able to beat up anyone my own age) and a liking for zombie and horror films. There's also a longing for alchohol (but I wont go into that).

What I realy want to know is is this normal and can I deal with it.

[JackOfClubs]

Yes it is normal, it is the testosterone hormones that come with male puberty. There is no real way to deal with it, just don't act on it.

[bowlheadhere]

I'm 16 and so I'm quite used to being horny 24/7, however now I'm starting to get random fits of rage- it's kinda like my whole body throbs as the anger washes over me, then I'll fantasize about injuring or killing someone -I think this may be due to me being small (I've always been bullied and never been able to beat up anyone my own age) and a liking for zombie and horror films. There's also a longing for alchohol (but I wont go into that).

What I realy want to know is is this normal and can I deal with it.

Yes, this is normal. As our hormone levels continuously raise and fall, it is easy for us to get mood swings. I know I have.

"my whole body throbs as the anger washes over me, then I'll fantasize about injuring or killing someone"

I have some of the same feelings. I sometimes will do the same, but you must learn to control your emotions and feelings. Meditation and the ability to have self control is the most important thing I have learned from Ninjutsu. It may sound really lame, but mediation is really important! It basically makes your mind and body insuperable and through meditation, you can unleash unbelievable power (through qi or chi). Learning to meditate, collect, and control your chi is something that will really help with controlling mood swings.

"I think this may be due to me being small (I've always been bullied and never been able to beat up anyone my own age)"

Size truly does not matter. It is the skill that one has which does. My sensei is only 5 feet tall and has more power than any professional linebacker. I am also kind of short (because I am asian) and still no one really picks on me. The true trick is to keep your head up high, have a good attitude, and always be head strong. If you do so, no one will pick on you for you will be sending of a signal to others that you are really not one to mess with. When you combine those three things, you will appear to be bigger. If anyone still picks on you, just ignore it. Words are words, and only that. If one tires to use physical force on you, just run away and prevent the situation in any way possible. Although I have the ability to take down most people (I am a Nidan or second degree black belt), but the best option is always to run away and get out of the situation before it happens. You should NEVER EVER EVER try and use force upon anyone unless you use it in self defense. Using unnecessary force upon anyone is NEVER acceptable! Do not ever try and use it on anyone.

"There's also a longing for alchohol (but I wont go into that). "

Please! do not turn to alcohol! Alcohol is never an answer to any problem! It only causes more problems (physical and emotional). There are so many problems that come with alcohol that it is never an answer! The use of alcohol for such a use and at such a young age can lead to an addiction. PLEASE DO NOT USE ALCOHOL TO SOLVE YOUR PROBLEMS!!!

I really hope this helps, and that you take my advice.

[paranoid]

thanks! +rep