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halodemon99
August 28th, 2009, 02:20 AM
I dunno where this goes so ummmmm....

I have many friends that all say im there best friend but then treat me like crap. I dont really wanna be there friend but... i dont wanna seem like a loner
wHaT sHoUlD i do

Gumleaf
August 28th, 2009, 02:42 AM
moving: white padded room >>> family & friends


hmmm, well the thing with friends is everyone needs them, but at the same time not everyone can fit the criteria of a friend. sometimes you find friends in the most unlikely situations, other times you think you have found a great friend only to find they stab you in the back later on. with friends you need to be able to connect somehow, whether thats on an emtional level, or through a social thing you have in common or whatever. but most importantly in a friendship you need to be able to respect eachother and if these people you say, say you're their best friend but don't treat you like a friend, then perhaps they either expect something different from the friendship then you do, or simply they are not your friend at all and using you. i suggest you try and work out within yourself who these "friends" really are, and then decide what to do from there.

diamond jetstream
September 3rd, 2009, 07:54 AM
try making new friends and when your succesful tell the other friends that your leaving their group

Contra
September 3rd, 2009, 08:00 AM
Those friends you have, are the ones called "friends by interest", so you need to get new friends, friends that like you for who you are and that you like too. Then you can step away from the others.

JackOfClubs
September 3rd, 2009, 05:50 PM
Everybody needs friends. But if they constantly make fun of you, and its not just joking around, as I do A LOT with my friends :D, then maybe they aren't true friends. Try to make some new ones, but that is easier said than done. Try to join some sports teams or clubs, and you will probably meet new people there.