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[LUCKY555]

why do kids have sex at the ages of 13-20?......if your going to have sex before marrage at least wait till you are 21......so why do people have sex so young....if you have done it....if not.....then put your opinion.




P.S. CAN SOMEONE MOVE THIS TO WHERE IT NEEDS TO BE PLEASE.:confused:

[IAMWILL]

Oh, I don't know, people think it will be great and everything and then they regret it later. Horniness gets the best of 'em!

Moving to General Questions, Polls, and Surveys, even though this isn't too puberty related, I'll move it there.

[tripolar]

Because, people that have had it talk about how awesome it is and the media glorifies it, and people want to do it.

It's just the way it is people are going to have sex before marriage, its not really a big deal and it shouldn't really concern you. unless your g/f or b/f is getting boned by someone else.

I personally don't care, i would have sex before marriage, before 21 all that shit. And if other people are having sex too big deal, just use caution and its fine.

[iceyfresh]

Because i really like someone, it feels REALLY good, we both wan't to so why not.

[bowlheadhere]

I just want to say that I know I am going to get crap for what I post, so please do not take it to heart. I am just explaining what is going on around me/the majority... you could be that exception to the rule.. anyways:

By the way, I am refering to 13-18 year olds who live in my area (not people between 18-21 I feel that once you are 18, you should be able to do whatever you want).

FINALLY! someone who shares the same view! I have asked basically everyone in my school who has had sex (about 25-50%... people like to have sex here, idk why) and they always say "because it feels good." I mean, seriously?! that is a joke! Yea, it may feel good, but is it really worth the risk of being mentally scared the rest of your life, possibly getting a STD/HIV, and losing something that is so valuable. This is not something that you can just take back... once you give it, there is no returning it to get your money back.

Honestly though, I think it is because people think it is cool. The first people who really did it were just stupid and did it because they thought it would be this amazing thing. Sex on its own isn't amazing; it is the love and devotion that goes into sex which makes it amazing. Anyways, soon after they did it, everyone started to follow. Everyone thought that it was "so cool" and those who have had sex were even praised. I do not understand why someone is praised just because they have had sex... if anything, they should be looked down upon because they are so young and not ready for sex. I think it also has to do with the whole masculinity thing. I mean, people keep lying/bragging about their penis size and stuff to make them seem more masculine, touch, and cool.

Those are just my thoughts though...

[ACQD139F83J]

before 15 I think is unnecessary, but I understand - people are horny... before 17 I can sort of understand the people that frown upon it, and I can understand people that want to wait until marriage - they want it to be special, but you think that everyone should wait until 20?!? that I don't quite get...

[thiscityisdead]

i started having sex when i was 13 and i just acted upon teenage impulse and straight up hornyness and i was dating a chick 2 years older then me at the time and she expected this out of me. i have nothing wrong with starting early as long as you take precautions like condoms and birth control...im completely healthy and im now 16.

[aaaaaaaaaaaaaaagg]

I did it for my first time on my 15th birthday and I was with the guy for 2 years. I figured that was long enough and we both really wanted it. We were both virgins and we used a condom and spermicide. I had the "talk" by both my parents and teachers and I believed I was well informed on the consequences. Sex does feel good and I really loved him. That's why I had sex.

[nick]

why do kids have sex at the ages of 13-20?......if your going to have sex before marrage at least wait till you are 21......so why do people have sex so young....if you have done it....if not.....then put your opinion.




P.S. CAN SOMEONE MOVE THIS TO WHERE IT NEEDS TO BE PLEASE.:confused:
What's so special or different about 21, its just an arbitrary number. I cant see any sense in your view point at all. If you want to wait until you get married well thats fine, but that might be when you're 16 or it might be when you're 32. Either you wait or you dont.

I think its up to each person to decide what's right for themself.

[JackOfClubs]

I would imagine because it feels good. But I think they should wait until marriage, too.

[SlappyTwinkle]

I haven't personally had sex, but i don't think having sex before marriage is bad. first off, if you planning on marrying someone, it's good to test drive the car before buying it. second, if you think your ready, go ahead. But if you're not, then you will have to live with that guilt.

[YourFriend]

I had sex. I don't understand why i shouldn't if i love my partner.

[AllThatIsLeft]

Personally I have no reason to have to wait till i'm 21, or married.
There is nothing stopping me, and I am a big girl and I know what I'm doing.

I believe in enjoying life, not restricting it.
and sex is definitely a joy of life.
if you do it right, all those things called risks, are not risks at all.

that's why

[Rutherford The Brave]

Personally I have no reason to have to wait till i'm 21, or married.
There is nothing stopping me, and I am a big girl and I know what I'm doing.

I believe in enjoying life, not restricting it.
and sex is definitely a joy of life.
if you do it right, all those things called risks, are not risks at all.

that's why

Yeah exactly I mean you have to try it and most kids do. Its just safer to do it with someone you love and when the two of you are mature.

[tripolar]

I haven't personally had sex, but i don't think having sex before marriage is bad. first off, if you planning on marrying someone, it's good to test drive the car before buying it. second, if you think your ready, go ahead. But if you're not, then you will have to live with that guilt.

I totally agree. Good to take a test drive lol, if the sex is bad i am taking her back :D

[NVerson]

I just want to say that I know I am going to get crap for what I post, so please do not take it to heart. I am just explaining what is going on around me/the majority... you could be that exception to the rule.. anyways:

By the way, I am refering to 13-18 year olds who live in my area (not people between 18-21 I feel that once you are 18, you should be able to do whatever you want).

FINALLY! someone who shares the same view! I have asked basically everyone in my school who has had sex (about 25-50%... people like to have sex here, idk why) and they always say "because it feels good." I mean, seriously?! that is a joke! Yea, it may feel good, but is it really worth the risk of being mentally scared the rest of your life, possibly getting a STD/HIV, and losing something that is so valuable. This is not something that you can just take back... once you give it, there is no returning it to get your money back.

Honestly though, I think it is because people think it is cool. The first people who really did it were just stupid and did it because they thought it would be this amazing thing. Sex on its own isn't amazing; it is the love and devotion that goes into sex which makes it amazing. Anyways, soon after they did it, everyone started to follow. Everyone thought that it was "so cool" and those who have had sex were even praised. I do not understand why someone is praised just because they have had sex... if anything, they should be looked down upon because they are so young and not ready for sex. I think it also has to do with the whole masculinity thing. I mean, people keep lying/bragging about their penis size and stuff to make them seem more masculine, touch, and cool.

Those are just my thoughts though...

Totally agree with u :D

[Rutherford The Brave]

One thing though you cant stop kids from having sex. Most kids know to wear a condom and they do it more when they are ready. You can say that it would be illegal until your 21 but that wont stop kids.

[tripolar]

One thing though you cant stop kids from having sex. Most kids know to wear a condom and they do it more when they are ready. You can say that it would be illegal until your 21 but that wont stop kids.

Exactly you got to be 21 to drink and still people like myself do it, same with 18 to smoke and people still do it.

And if it was illegal what are the "sexytime police" going to raid houses.

[Rutherford The Brave]

Exactly you got to be 21 to drink and still people like myself do it, same with 18 to smoke and people still do it.

And if it was illegal what are the "sexytime police" going to raid houses.

They are probably just reaping the tax benefits.

[AutumnDae]

I don't know why people feel the need to have sex so young. If you love the person, you can wait. Sure, it's an expression out of love, but the real test of your love is resisting, and finding other ways to abstain and find ways to express your love.

[Underground_Network]

Guys are incredibly manipulative (just some).

Girls are incredibly weak and confused (a select few).

This is during the teenage years (and of course this is largely stereotypical, not all girls are like that, nor are all guys like that either).

A lot of girls fall head over heels for a guy and once they've been with him for awhile they have sex.

I've seen plenty (by plenty I honestly don't mean that many, it's just most [sexual] relationships I've known about have ended this way) of relationships fall apart because the guy gets bored of having sex with the same girl over and over again...

Whereas I haven't seen anywhere near as many [sexual] relationships fall apart because the girls gets bored of having sex with the same guy over and over again...

My one friend who is sexually active has 'breaks' with his girlfriend where he 'sees' ["does"] other girls, and then he comes back to his girlfriend and it's honestly ridiculous... But she's so in love with him that she's blind to the fact that he's honestly just a manipulative asshole.