First time

[maverick18]

Now I'm pretty sure that I will be having sex for the first time quite soon but my problem is that I think that I won't even last a minute :confused: is there anyway of prolonging it. I don't want to dissapoint her! Another concern is that she has done it before and I haven't I feel under alot of pressure to perform.

[thiscityisdead]

dont sweat it dude and play it cool, take it slow, make sure you both enjoi it and you'll be all good. dont forget a condom and some lube =]] good luck bro

[AllThatIsLeft]

foreplay!!!
Chances are she will get a lot of pleasure from that, so once she's happy do your business, have confidence in yourself.
and you dont have to keep up to any standard, just enjoy the moment =]

and protection!

[bowlheadhere]

I am going to be honest with you, so it may sound a little harsh... but yea... anyways!

If you are thinking that you "may be having sex SOON" and are really worried about maybe dissapointing her, you are really not ready. Sex is something special that will come when and only when the time is right! It is not the sort of thing that you can really predict when and where you will have sex (that is unless you force it upon her which would be classified as rape). I mean, are you really going to be like hanging and then be like "hey, do you want to have sex right now?"...??? I think that would be really awkward. You will know when the time is right. Also, if you are worried about dissapointing her, you are really not ready. Sex is a symbol of love and devotion between two people (unless it is meaningless sex which is pointless/low/meaningless/taking advantage of her) and therefore it should not matter if you dissapoint her. It is more important to know when the time is right, know that you love her, and when those things happen, you do not need to be worrying about dissapointing her.

By the way, if she has had sex with someone, you really need to know if she has HIV or any STDs. IF YOU GO THROUGH WITH IT, ALWAYS USE A CONDOM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Those are just my honest thoughts/opinions on it... so dont get mad at me for telling you what I think.

[gagemeaker]

play it cool and dont rush into things
if u like her and she likes u everything will go gr8

[iceyfresh]

Don't do it if your not comfortable and jak off alot be fore and you wont cum as quick.

[ACQD139F83J]

Just go calmly and slowly... don't think at all about your enjoyment - that's her job... you should be focused on her enjoyment...

[blingibong]

go in slow
and do it but,,,, wank alot before
soo less cum and you can keeep going experience talking

[nick]

Don't do it if your not comfortable and jak off alot be fore and you wont cum as quick.

go in slow
and do it but,,,, wank alot before
soo less cum and you can keeep going experience talking

I dont really go along with that, to be honest my advice would be to lay of the wanking for a few days before. You're not going to make the best impression if you can only manage a little dribble.

Just go calmly and slowly... don't think at all about your enjoyment - that's her job... you should be focused on her enjoyment...

Now that I do agree with, 100%.

Look don't make up your mind in advance that you're going to cum like that, this is real life not American Pie. If it happens, apologise, take a few minutes off, then try again, the second time you should manage much longer. You might find its harder to cum than you expect, some guys get the opposite problem and find it hard to finish at first. That was what happened to me. Also remember that the condom will de-sensitize your penis, go for extra-safe ones that are thicker if you're worried rather than the extra-thin more sensitive ones.

[Grey fox]

There are many ways and techniques to delay ejaculation during penetrative sex, you can even google them!

[Fourth Dimension]

jak off alot be fore and you wont cum as quick. that does work