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Gumleaf
August 26th, 2009, 11:52 PM
i don't know how i end up feeling like this all the time. i'm just such an idiot you know. i just drive everyone away with my constant complaining and stuff and then i wonder why i'm bloody lonely! why the bloody hell can't i get myself together, just be a normal person who can be a normal friend to people or a normal person in general without driving everyone away in droves with my insanity and constant complaining about feeling like bloody crap!!! i'm my own worst enemy, i'm just a big bloody joke and i hate myself for it!!!
AllThatIsLeft
August 27th, 2009, 01:39 AM
Darling, you are the only one that can change things around.
and if you don't love yourself, and keep insulting yourself... how can you expect the rest of people to respect you?
In my experience this is just a phase, I went through it, and it was the worst i ever felt. I hated myself, and hoped the world would fix me.
Then i realized, the world can't fix me, and it won't.
So I grabbed my life, shifted around, so I didn't depend on anyone.
I became to own source of consolation, adoration, and more than anything I learned to love myself.
The world isn't there for you, and it only hurts waiting for it.
Loneliness, is a gift.
enjoy it while you have it.
and once there is someone to talk to, to be with, to share a moment with, don't waste it by talking more on feeling alone. Because once there is someone to talk to, you are not alone anymore. :)
and you gotta make the best of that moment!
heart broken
August 27th, 2009, 02:04 AM
well we all say that we want people to like us for who we are but if we dont like ourselves for who we are then how can we expect other people too. you have to just sit yourself down and say " hey this is me, this is who i am, and i love it." because you only you can help yourself. you have to push the bad thoughts and feelings aside and just try your hardest to just be happy.
theOperaGhost
August 27th, 2009, 02:40 AM
STEPHEN! You aren't pushing people away, you just think you are so you seclude yourself without even knowing it. Everyone complains about stuff, believe me...I complain ALL the time. Don't think that you are the only one complaining and that nobody wants to hear it, because we do. We want you to be happy. People will listen...or at least I know I will, and there are many others that will too. Talk to us whenever you are lonely or just need to talk! DO IT! I demand you to!!
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