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danzama
August 26th, 2009, 10:31 PM
ok my mum and her girlfriend have been openly gay for a year now, i don't know if this is affecting my fealings about guys.

i "liked" girls untill i was mid 14, then i was atracted to guys soon after.

i "like" both sexes but i have no idea if i'm straight, bi or gay or if it's hormones taking control.

my mum would be totally acceptive if i was gay.

HELP!!!

bowlheadhere
August 26th, 2009, 10:39 PM
Are you emotionally attracted to guys?

You shouldnt worry about it! You are only 14 and still developing. There are so many hormones rushing through your veins that are telling you all different things. Instead of trying to decide if you are gay/bi, you should just be living your life for what it is. (btw, I just want to say that your mom being a lesbian has nothing to do with if you are gay/bi except for the fact that she would be supportive) I dont think anyone should even determine whether they are straight/bi/gay because aren't we all just looking for love? I mean, waht does it matter if they are a guy or girl? Just live your life and be open to all different types of love, and you will be fine. Don't try and categorize yourself, but if you decide that you must, do it when you are at the end of/finish puberty.

tripolar
August 26th, 2009, 11:17 PM
Are you emotionally attracted to guys?

You shouldnt worry about it! You are only 14 and still developing. There are so many hormones rushing through your veins that are telling you all different things. Instead of trying to decide if you are gay/bi, you should just be living your life for what it is. (btw, I just want to say that your mom being a lesbian has nothing to do with if you are gay/bi except for the fact that she would be supportive) I dont think anyone should even determine whether they are straight/bi/gay because aren't we all just looking for love? I mean, waht does it matter if they are a guy or girl? Just live your life and be open to all different types of love, and you will be fine. Don't try and categorize yourself, but if you decide that you must, do it when you are at the end of/finish puberty.

Exactly what he said, don't worry your still young and developing. Just live your life and try new things.