Cutie Guy...

[MoveAlong]

but I cannot have him

For he is a senior

And I am a junior

and I would say I'm unnattractive

And in the closet

and he probably wouldn't like me anyway

sigh...

I give him a little extra food when he goes to my lunch line.

And I hug him.

He's nice, but I think it just wouldn't work out.

The hard part about this crush is he's so... accessible;

I'm gay...he's gay...it's my first crush like this.

but what do I risk if I come out of the closet?

drama. hate. losing friends. judgement. more drama. which gets in the way of my accomplishments.

sigh...Oh well...

[heart broken]

hey you never know. you said hes gay too right?? if so maybe he feels the same way.

[tripolar]

A year ahead no big deal

Come out to him only if you think he won't tell everyone

Give it a chance, try to talk to him more and send hints discretely. Why wouldn't it work out? Give it a chance if its worth it. You already hug him, how does he react?

[AllThatIsLeft]

Why can't you have him?
have some confidence in yourself!
the age difference is nothing.

there is no reason for you not to try, from i can see.

[Zero Beat]

Taken them when you can is what i always say. Just say to him "Hay i like you" maybe if u want "I like you a lot" easy as pi. XD Thats my lame advice. XD

[AllThatIsLeft]

you shouldn't be so blunt =\

[Zero Beat]

Its either blunt or not at all in this case i think, and if it is any help, it worked for me :D

[sebbie]

A year apart is nothing at all.

As with the closet issue you have, that is something only you can decide, think things through, maybe even ask him about how he came out in that past for some guidance?

Also people often think less of themselves than what they really are, be more confident.

[Grey fox]

Who says you have to come out completely? Why not just to him? if you guys already hang out, then people won't get all suspicious if you start doing it a little more.

Have more self confidence as well, why wouldn't he want you? Especially if he had the privilege of being your first boyfriend ;)

[MoveAlong]

A year ahead no big deal

Come out to him only if you think he won't tell everyone

Give it a chance, try to talk to him more and send hints discretely. Why wouldn't it work out? Give it a chance if its worth it. You already hug him, how does he react?

Yeah I agree...he hugs me. Idk, just cutely, but I feel like I might be one of the only guys who hugs him. Idk. I give him the non-straight hug, and give him a little extra at lunch time. Those are my hints :P

Who says you have to come out completely? Why not just to him? if you guys already hang out, then people won't get all suspicious if you start doing it a little more.

Have more self confidence as well, why wouldn't he want you? Especially if he had the privilege of being your first boyfriend ;)

True, but I still don't know him that well. I wish I did. But also, I don't want to come out to someone at this stage who I know won't like me.

That's not saying that the person who I come out to has to like me or else I'll be crushed, it's just I don't want someone who doesn't like me knowing. I'd rather take those chances in college when I'm out to everyone. You know what I mean?

[Mikey]

I'm dating a little froshie right now. She's in my picture. My friend nicole is dating a freshie in college. And me and nicole are sophmores. So it could work

Just gotta say that the college kid is putting her through so hard times.

[AutumnDae]

You could be friends with him first, then if you feel comfortable, it would be easier coming out to a friend than a bunch of strangers.

[dstnyisurs]

Just do it. Sure, people will talk about you for a week or so, but then some chick will get pregnant or someone will send around nude pictures of a football player and you'll be yesterday's news. And you can get some lovie dovie time with this guy. Is he hot?Huh huh? Plus you can have GUY talk with girls. 0.0 Lawlz. Girls love gay guys, and all the guys will eventually want to be your friend to get up with the chicks.

[Mikey]

Just do it. Sure, people will talk about you for a week or so, but then some chick will get pregnant or someone will send around nude pictures of a football player and you'll be yesterday's news. And you can get some lovie dovie time with this guy. Is he hot?Huh huh? Plus you can have GUY talk with girls. 0.0 Lawlz. Girls love gay guys, and all the guys will eventually want to be your friend to get up with the chicks.

Ahaha. Girls love gays indeed. I dont know why. They should love straight guys since thats where they get their action. :]

Just sayin.

[MoveAlong]

Just do it. Sure, people will talk about you for a week or so, but then some chick will get pregnant or someone will send around nude pictures of a football player and you'll be yesterday's news. And you can get some lovie dovie time with this guy. Is he hot?Huh huh? Plus you can have GUY talk with girls. 0.0 Lawlz. Girls love gay guys, and all the guys will eventually want to be your friend to get up with the chicks.

teehee. That's actually pretty insightful. But I'm way to scared to do it. So until then...postponed. Lemmie just hang out with him and admire him for now :P

[dstnyisurs]

Admiring from afar makes the heart grow stronger. Lawlz.