One More Hurdle After Another... (X^'

[The Harlequin]

Okay so great news!
I've got a bf and he's the most legenday guy on the planet ~ I'm completely in love with him, but here's the snag...

He's not out
I'm not out,
And whilst my parents say they aren't ready to see me with a dude (bringing him home etc) his parents don't know and probably wouldn't take the news at all well... So now what?

If we go around town it will basically out us to the world, we can't just visit each other's houses... The only people who know we're both bi are a select few and even then they have no idea we're going out...

And in the meantime we miss each other
(:'^{

[Confused123]

From experience I waited until there was nobody at my house. I don't know if your parents work or not but that'd be the best time to invite him over

[Leprachaun]

can't you pretend you're just friends? do people have to know that your going out or that your bi?

[Yesterdays Hero]

Well, obviously you can't hide it forever, so my advice is, just tell people you're going out. You have to tell people, and there is no use putting off what is going to happen anyway. I think you should just get it over and done with and tell people... but only tell people who have to know... like his parents.

[tripolar]

can't you pretend you're just friends? do people have to know that your going out or that your bi?

Exactly act like best friends and when you two are alone, then act like boy friends.

[bowlheadhere]

Why can't you go out? I go and hang out with guy friends a lot, sometimes it is just me and them or a whole group. There is nothing wrong with going out and hanging out with them. In my eyes, you would just be two friends who are hanging out. There is a low chance that when you go to hang out that you will see people you know, expecially if is an "off" day (monday-thursday). I would just go and hang out with them. I mean, if I were in your situation (well, I am, just that we don't really live close by eachother. :( ) I would hang out with them. You only have one lifetime, so make the best of it... you know? yea.. that is just my thought on it though.

[The Harlequin]

Thanks everyone, we hang out in public like normal mates and only have our sexitimesss when we're at his house, I'm amazed we haven't been caught, actually... (X^,

[Jagador]

It isn't very hard to hide your sexuality, however if one of you is extremely feminine, then thats a different story.

[tripolar]

Thanks everyone, we hang out in public like normal mates and only have our sexitimesss when we're at his house, I'm amazed we haven't been caught, actually... (X^,

Awesome, just act like you are now and it should work out fine. Just don't get caught :D

[Schon]

i think you guys should hang out whenever. people would prob. think your just chilln' with your freinds man, and if they've got a problem with it. they can go f**k themself :D

good luck

SB

[diamond jetstream]

me and my bf do the same we are like eachothers shadow but we act like best friend but we have a code way of saying like lets go somewhere secret or secret ways of showing affection to one another you should have a code aswell,it works!!!:yes: