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diamond jetstream
August 26th, 2009, 05:54 AM
have you had any same sex experiences?what kind? was it awkward?:confused: im asking because im deciding my sexuality:what:
NVerson
August 26th, 2009, 10:49 AM
Never had any.... Take your time deciding it:yes:
Confused123
August 26th, 2009, 12:24 PM
I've had one but that was years ago I totally regret it! but only because I was too young and such. Just take your time that's what I'm doing but I'm sticking with BI at the moment cause I like to take every opportunity ;)
Fiending_the_freedom
August 26th, 2009, 02:55 PM
well i'm bisexual, discovered this when i was 14, and yea i'd say the first kiss i had after i realized was awkward, but of course it would be, i'd say the same thing about my first kiss with a boy.
If you put yourself in that situation, you'll probably be able to tell if its awkward jsut because its new or because its not for you, do what your heart tells you :)
The Harlequin
August 26th, 2009, 03:15 PM
I had my first when I was far too young and it was okay ~ right up until his mum burst in on us, then I went into denial for years and years...
But then I had another not two days ago and it was awesomeeeeeee!!!
It wasn't awkward because I've been gradually getting to know him over the summer and the feeling of attraction was mutual...
Ah! It was amazingggg!
(X^,
Yesterdays Hero
August 26th, 2009, 06:21 PM
I have had a couple of same sex experiences, and we did hand jobs, blow jobs and anal.
tripolar
August 26th, 2009, 08:44 PM
I'm bi, me and my friend have been doing stuff each time we spend the night for the past 2 summers. At first i thought it was awkward for him and i asked him and he said he likes it. We are closer friends because of it and it makes him a special friend.
Archer600
August 26th, 2009, 11:12 PM
One of my friends offered me a blow job once...I got creaped out left and now I don't talk to him had he been joking I wouldhave laughed it off but he was like kneeling down while he said it so I got out of there
confusedboy
August 27th, 2009, 11:43 AM
I've gone all the way a few times. I am gay but take as much time as you need to figure out what you are ;)
ANNA MARIE.
August 29th, 2009, 04:23 PM
When I was about 12.
There was this girl.
And we were close friends.
And one day we just kinda went at it.
In the hallway of my apartment building.
We were on top of each other groping and kissing each other.
And I just kind of knew.
KenFisher
August 30th, 2009, 03:20 PM
yea, Have gone all the way too, for a few times. No feelings attached, and wasn't that awkward.
And also kissed a gay friend of mine. Good kisssing. Had some feelings, but after once we were about to do something more and some people nearly walked in on us, he just refused having any further sexual stuff with me, and be just friends.
You just have to take your time and see if any experiances comes along. After you tried out both guys and girls, you'll be able to decide what you like more. So far, no luck with the ladies :/
blameitonvogue
August 31st, 2009, 12:25 AM
I have had a few, some good some bad.
The first experience with the same sex ever, I helped her cheat on her current girlfriend. I didn't know until it had already happened and the GF was mad the next day. xP Obviously not the way to start things out.
My second experience was with a good friend of mine. We had been friends for a long time, she a lesbian. I finally came out with the fact that I a bi, and she asked me out. :D
We dated for almost a year before we both decided it just wasn't going to work. We are still close friends to this day. It was a very nice experience.
I suppose it just depends.
themanwhoneverwould
September 1st, 2009, 09:26 AM
I haven't but i would love to and not to long away. I would quite like to wait untill i am 16 at least. But more than anything i want to find the right person.
DarkWingedAngel
September 1st, 2009, 09:32 AM
the first time I kissed a girl it just felt right.
Anyways
I have gotten fingered by a girl, i have gotten eaten out by a girl and made out with a girl it just felt right so it wasn't really awkward
Jagador
September 1st, 2009, 08:27 PM
haven't had any yet, but im willing to do it with another guy...=)
Kinetic
September 2nd, 2009, 03:14 AM
time comes with expieriance, dont rush it, enjoy it, never forget it
theOperaGhost
September 2nd, 2009, 03:20 AM
I have, but I was so young that I don't feel they were sexual at all. I obviously didn't know what sex was or anything.
Impact13
September 2nd, 2009, 10:33 PM
I had.... My friend from school came to my house, we were playing a video game and he touched my cock, i let him then he started to rub it and i rubed his and i told him i would suk his if he sucked mine and he did COOL awesome
ackmedsgirl666
September 3rd, 2009, 09:50 PM
first time for me
i have been fingered by a girl
i have made out with a girl and havr fingered and done stuff back to her
haven't gone any further then that though but i am willing to go down on a great girl if i ever got the chance
Ryhanna
September 3rd, 2009, 11:11 PM
My friend and i did some dry humping and made out
Eagle1
September 3rd, 2009, 11:21 PM
haven't had any yet, but im willing to do it with another guy...=)
same
bombasticdude
September 6th, 2009, 03:54 AM
well...u dont get to decide ur sexuality...its smthn u get...its self manipulation...and u r free to try...
owenza
September 6th, 2009, 04:07 PM
Me and some of my friends dry humped as a joke on holiday, but they are really homophobic so was just a joke.
YourFriend
September 6th, 2009, 04:37 PM
Sex and others.
Ortizitthisone
September 6th, 2009, 09:47 PM
Oral. With a gay friend. Received, did not give because he was really nervous and couldn't get it up. It was the first experience with either sex for both of us. Just a youth sexual experiment. It wasn't particularly awkward and I did enjoy it, but I probably wouldn't do it again, now that my curiosity has been satisfied.
thepieman
September 7th, 2009, 03:46 PM
I haven't gone all the way, or anywhere near all the way. But I have had a couple of experiences.
They weren't awkward at first. I have a bisexual friend, and once we were messing about, and we kissed a couple of times. Then we kissed again afterwards, but we were both drunk. It has been awkward explaining them, especially as I was still curious at the time.
The only time it was really awkward was a couple of times in public, we nearly kissed - once watching a rugby match and once in school. The second time was in a lesson, we'd finished our work, and we were packing away, and we were stood at the back with our mates and we were messing around, but then he went to kiss me. At first I almost went to kiss him, but then pushed him away jokingly. The class was watching - awkward.
To be fair, he is cute :P.
On a lighter note - this is my 100th post! :yeah: :yeah: :yeah:
Grey fox
September 7th, 2009, 03:49 PM
im asking because im deciding my sexuality:what:
Please don't let other people decide your sexuality for you. That's plain dumb.
diamond jetstream
September 9th, 2009, 07:29 AM
i didnt mean to mislead what i meant was that i wanted peoples oppinions on the matter.i did choose for myself though.i chose to be bi when me and my best friend took it to the next level
hardasrock6
September 9th, 2009, 05:21 PM
i have not but i want to. i dont know any gay/bi guys though so it could be a while :(
(pm/message me for talk about stuff) :D
bizarre
September 10th, 2009, 02:45 AM
with a guy named chris (he was a bastard)
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