Which GIRL???

[xTheLordsServantx]

I have a serious problem, and i need some help

FIRST. Im a freshman in highschool. Theres this girl in my grade, steffi. Shes really hot and has a great personality. At this party, we were laying together on this couch and we got really close and she was hugging me a lot. Later that night, i saw her hugging my best friend, Michael. I was confused because i thought "we had something." Should I ask her out or not? Do you think she likes me?

SECOND. Theres a really hot cute blonde 8th grader that i really wunna go out with next year when she gets 2 high school. Shes also got a great personality, but her brother is a senior this year, and always beats guys up if they try to make a move on his sister. We like eachother, but i dont wunna get my ass kicked by her brother if he returns next year from college and finds out that i been gettin some from his sis. Shuld i ask her out? What shuld I do about her older brother? (Her older bro and my older bro r best friends. Theyre both seniors)

THIRD. Theres this girl whose nicer than the other 2. Shes not as attractive (shes not ugly), but she really like me, and is always grabbing my ass, spanking me, grabing my dick, hugging me, and constantly feeling me up. Should I develop a relationship with her?

Which girl do u think is best for me? FIRST, SECOND or THIRD?

[Bobby]

First. She is the better mix of all three. Pretty, and good personality.

[Luckylee218]

Second, I don't think the first has any real feelings for you. The third would just be an unhealthy relationship. So the second is it. You did say that your brother is friends with the girl's brother, right? Use that to your advantge if you can. Also you should ask the guy if it is all right (that way he has no reason to beat you up)

[xTheLordsServantx]

Well, I dont know if it will matter to him if my brother and him are friends. Hes really protective.

[Glasgow]

Sounds like your a pretty lucky guy. I would say either 1 or 2. I would save 3 just if u want to have sex one day or something, 3 is the answer. (I know I sound perverted but Im giving him suggestions) So either 1 or 2. Which one do u like better?

[xTheLordsServantx]

I like 1 a little better than 2

[Luckylee218]

Well, I dont know if it will matter to him if my brother and him are friends. Hes really protective.

Well it is worth a try. Trust me if she hugs you then hugs anouther guy shortly after, most likely she only likes you s a friend. I hug my guy friends and it doesn't even mean a thing. (I'm a girl by the way)

[xTheLordsServantx]

Beautiful are girls that are really good looking, while hot are girls that are really good looking that u wuld like 2 bang. jk. lol

But ur right stef prob dont like me. Now my friend michael thinks he likes her cus they were flirting yesterday...

[krzwis]

hugs don't mean much. Hugs are a sign of care...a message of "i care about you, and I'm happy I have you". Friends hug each other all the time, and sometimes I give my best friends realy deep hugs, even if my gf is standing there.

Hugs DON"T nessisarly mean "i want you" but they do mean "i love you" to a certain extent (ie: i love you as close friend...i love your friendship...etc). You can give hugs to random strangers and you can hug people who hug you back. Hugs do not mean she's in love with your friend, maybe she wants a hug to feel safe, to feel secure, to quiet her inner chaos.

The secound one on the other hand, your safe. Your brother being friends with his gives you an actual "protection" depending on your brother's personality. They're both going to colledge anyway, so if you start something, by the time they visit from colledge, it'll be a few months in and both will be like "well...he hasn't hurt her yet".......that is, if you actully get to love her and don't act all "sex, sex, sex" around her....just to warn you, if you screw up majorly ONCE....you are litteleraly SCREWED. Don't break her heart, don't mess up and you'll be in the clear


Girl three is way to phisical...and while most relationships will probably be mostly physical in your grades, it can't back fire. She could be just using you as a "sex budy" or to vent out physical stress. The fact that you don't find her that attractive suggests that you probably don't like her all that much (as a date).....don't do it





so...to choose....follow your heart and mind....and NOT YOUR DICK. I can't stress this enough but if you follow your perverted thoughts you WILL screw it up. She might want it cause you both are young and crazy. but still...WATCH OUT




Chose with who you find the cool-est and the best heart and mind

[BoyCrazy]

I'd say none of them! But if I had to I'd pic #2.

[Jeff.R]

I'd so go for gal no.2

[Luckylee218]

Definatly girl #2

[ScotsGirl]

Which girl do u think is best for me? FIRST, SECOND or THIRD?

Well...which girl do you a like the most?
Try and think about who you really like as a person, who makes you laugh, who do you have he most fun with, who can you talk to without feeling like they will burst out laughing at you (unless of course, youre telling a joke :shock: ...then they most definately should burst out laughing!! :P hehe! ;) )
But seriously, forget about the fact that they like you or that they are making moves on you and definately forget about any siblings that disapprove (they arent the ones who are going to be in the relationship, you and the girl are! ;) )
So ...who do you actually like the most?

:D
xxx