View Full Version : How should I do this
Archer600
August 25th, 2009, 10:51 AM
So there is this girl I have known since we were 4 and I just recently found that I really like her. Even when I have had the worst day when I talk to her I feel better almost instantly. And when I'm with her I just feel happy all the time, but I don't know how to tell her I feel that way about her cuz it would be really ackward and I don't know how she would take that. Any advice would be great
Darkness
August 25th, 2009, 10:54 AM
How old are you both?
tripolar
August 25th, 2009, 07:45 PM
If you feel that its going to be awkward or it may mess with your friendship, just stay friends.
Archer600
August 25th, 2009, 11:06 PM
How old are you both?
We r both 15 almost 16
Darkness
August 26th, 2009, 12:58 PM
Don't say anything yet. Just give out signals if she signals back for whatever reason then you should ask her!
Gumleaf
August 26th, 2009, 10:29 PM
in this situation you need to weigh up your options. of course the ideal thing for you is for her to like you back, but you need to think about how it will affect your relationship with her now if she doesn't feel the same. firstly, sometimes a close friendship with someone like this can be better then a romantic relationship with the person, especially if you connect well with them. so you might want to think about whether just being friends would be the best thing for you. if you really think that you should take things further, then you should tell her directly how you feel and see what she thinks. but remember there is a lot of risk in that. i'm not trying to turn you off the idea but i am suggesting you think carefully about things first.
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