Help...embarrassing problem.

[johnthebassist]

I have a really embarrassing problem I want to be cured of. Whenever I'm doing stuff with my gf I cum way faster than I'd like. I always feel embarrassed for lasting very short amounts of time (for example recently I came twice during a bj that lasted only about 15 minutes, one of them within maybe 2 or 3 minutes). Is there anyway other than time I can do something about this cause I absolutely hate it.

[Aves]

Umm. Masturbate more, builds your resistance, so I've heard.

[johnthebassist]

I've also heard that doing it more than 5 times a week is unhealthy....

[blingibong]

I've also heard that doing it more than 5 times a week is unhealthy....

hu said that nothing rong but... only if you can...

[nick]

I have a really embarrassing problem I want to be cured of. Whenever I'm doing stuff with my gf I cum way faster than I'd like. I always feel embarrassed for lasting very short amounts of time (for example recently I came twice during a bj that lasted only about 15 minutes, one of them within maybe 2 or 3 minutes). Is there anyway other than time I can do something about this cause I absolutely hate it.

I've also heard that doing it more than 5 times a week is unhealthy....
Well, first off, forget the >5 times is unhealthy, thats just nonsense, just dismiss that. You can do it as often or as rarely as feels right and comfortable for you. If you find yourself getting sore, or producing little or no cum, its time to take a day or two off. Thats all really.

On your main question. Well when you masturbate try to train yourself to take longer. Use stop & go, or whatever, but dont just go all out to cum, pace yourself. If you can make yourself be slower on your own it should help when you're not on your own.

Talk to your gf. Be honest. Let her know you want it to last longer. She should understand that and really want to help. If its happening too quickly for you tell her, ask her to ease off for a minute or two. Really you have to learn to work together.

I hope there's something of use in there. Cant get too explicit. pm me if you think I may be of more help.

[JackOfClubs]

Ya, there are absolutely no health problems that come with masturbating, no matter how much you do it. And if you masturbate more, you'll build up your time, and you'll last longer.

[iceyfresh]

Masturbate mate i sometimes don't cum which is depressing for me so i guess not to much:(

[johnthebassist]

Well, first off, forget the >5 times is unhealthy, thats just nonsense, just dismiss that. You can do it as often or as rarely as feels right and comfortable for you. If you find yourself getting sore, or producing little or no cum, its time to take a day or two off. Thats all really.

On your main question. Well when you masturbate try to train yourself to take longer. Use stop & go, or whatever, but dont just go all out to cum, pace yourself. If you can make yourself be slower on your own it should help when you're not on your own.

Talk to your gf. Be honest. Let her know you want it to last longer. She should understand that and really want to help. If its happening too quickly for you tell her, ask her to ease off for a minute or two. Really you have to learn to work together.

I hope there's something of use in there. Cant get too explicit. pm me if you think I may be of more help.

I've already tried everything you mentioned, not to very much effect. I can last longer doing it myself but not with her, even when I talk to her about it.
Thanks anyway though.

[Darkened-Inferno]

I agree with what the others are saying. Masturbate a bit more, and take your time with it. Also, the 5 times a week myth isn't true. If you do get sore, just lay off and take a break, no problem. Hope that was of some help to you!

[johnthebassist]

Thanks guys, after I heard that I cut WAY down on it, that could have something to do with it.

[ProblemSolver]

Before your with your chick,
rub one off.
other wise its like going in with a loaded gun.
no way to stay cool if your backed up.