tanman
August 23rd, 2009, 09:53 PM
Prepare for a long story, just saying :yes:
Ok I have been with this girl since the end of school, she has liked me for countless years, I never really realized it until about a few months before I asked her out. She responded with a definite "yes" and all was well. Of course we have had our hugs and moments but when it comes to holding hands its like she is completely ashamed. The first time it was on the way to a party at the lake, no one could see us. I saw she was uncomfortable so I stopped. :what: I was gonna ask why but I didn't. I tried to hold her hand again at a ride at the fair, again, I was pretty much rejected. :what: We have been going out for about 4 months now so I thought she would be comfortable but I guess not.
So her birthday comes around and I buy her a nice necklace, she loves it and wears it almost everyday. :):):). About a week later she sends out thank you notes and everyone opened theirs but me because I didn't want to embarass her in front of everyone just incase she wrote something personal. So I later opened it at home, the letter was nice, but she signed it "Your Friend" or "From" (I forget which one)...anyway, I was kinda shocked to see that she didn't really aknowledge that we were BF/GF. Am I just paranoid, or is she just not comfortable yet??:confused::confused:
During most of this time there has been several moments when I could have kissed her but didn't because I just knew it would end bad. I guess what I really want to know is: (1) should we stay together? (2) should i kiss her? and (3) how can I make her more comfortable with "us"? Thanks in advance.
Ok I have been with this girl since the end of school, she has liked me for countless years, I never really realized it until about a few months before I asked her out. She responded with a definite "yes" and all was well. Of course we have had our hugs and moments but when it comes to holding hands its like she is completely ashamed. The first time it was on the way to a party at the lake, no one could see us. I saw she was uncomfortable so I stopped. :what: I was gonna ask why but I didn't. I tried to hold her hand again at a ride at the fair, again, I was pretty much rejected. :what: We have been going out for about 4 months now so I thought she would be comfortable but I guess not.
So her birthday comes around and I buy her a nice necklace, she loves it and wears it almost everyday. :):):). About a week later she sends out thank you notes and everyone opened theirs but me because I didn't want to embarass her in front of everyone just incase she wrote something personal. So I later opened it at home, the letter was nice, but she signed it "Your Friend" or "From" (I forget which one)...anyway, I was kinda shocked to see that she didn't really aknowledge that we were BF/GF. Am I just paranoid, or is she just not comfortable yet??:confused::confused:
During most of this time there has been several moments when I could have kissed her but didn't because I just knew it would end bad. I guess what I really want to know is: (1) should we stay together? (2) should i kiss her? and (3) how can I make her more comfortable with "us"? Thanks in advance.