Friend likes crush

[Lady_Chaos]

Ugh, okay so I like this guy, we'll call him "L", and my friend, we'll call her "KM", likes him too. We went to a carnival thing for the new school and hung out with L and his friends. We were having a great time, and then when I got home some problems arose. I was talking to B, one of my best friends and L's friend, and he was talking to L and he told me that L knows I like him and that he doesn't like my friend KM. My friend KM has decided that if I ever go out with L (Which is a possibility) she will be very angry with me. So, my friend B, who is like an older brother to me, told KM off and she got all angry and has now decided that we need to talk in person about everything, and I can't just tell her straight out that L doesn't like her, can I? I don't know what exactly to tell her about everything, because I know a little more than I should, because B likes to keep me aware of everything. KM is doing the same thing she did to me in 5th grade, with the whole "I like the same guy you do" deal, and B explained that to L and so now I don't know exactly whats up with everything but that's OK. I don't know if L likes me back, but he just had to break up with his GF because she moved away and he's not ready for a relationship yet, so I've been trying to keep everything light because I don't want to cause any problems with anyone. So the main question I'm trying to get at here is: Should I or should I not explain to KM that L does NOT like her? She is telling me not to worry about her feelings, but I do, because I'm not a very mean person and people's feelings, even people that I don't like, or don't like me, their feelings matter to me too. I don't want anyone feeling bad or anything, and I really don't know what to tell her...

And sorry for the rather long post.

[Viral Death]

I think you need to have L talk to her and explain that he likes you and not her

[Lady_Chaos]

But L isn't looking for a relationship. I don't know if he likes me. I highly doubt he does... Had kinda a rough day today... I accidentally backed into him and I think he might think that I did it on purpose... and Ha, your signature... no reason for self-harm... guess what i did today? Scraped the skin off of my arm with my fingernail! isn't that WONDERFUL? it hurts like hell.

[Viral Death]

You L and your friend need to sit down and have a good talk

[Darkness]

His choice, let him choose eh?

[NightFighter]

Lets look at the facts -
KM is your friend. The 'rule' of friendship is to not go out with a guy you both like.
L is'nt even ready to get into a relationship anyway. So, right now, it doesnt matter who he likes because nothing will come of it, for now atleast.

So, in my opinion, dont tell KM that L doesnt like her. It might just hurt her feelings and having a crush is quite healthy. I remember i would look forward to school if it meant i could see him. I knew he didnt like me back but there was always hope. I say let her have hope. I think it would be best if you and L stayed friends. You dont want to jeopordize your friendship with KM and rush into a relationship that might not last long.

[Lady_Chaos]

You L and your friend need to sit down and have a good talk

I dont want to bring L into any shit because he doesn't need any right now... so I'm not going to sit down and have a "nice" little "talk" with him.


Lets look at the facts -
KM is your friend. The 'rule' of friendship is to not go out with a guy you both like.
L is'nt even ready to get into a relationship anyway. So, right now, it doesnt matter who he likes because nothing will come of it, for now atleast.

So, in my opinion, dont tell KM that L doesnt like her. It might just hurt her feelings and having a crush is quite healthy. I remember i would look forward to school if it meant i could see him. I knew he didnt like me back but there was always hope. I say let her have hope. I think it would be best if you and L stayed friends. You dont want to jeopordize your friendship with KM and rush into a relationship that might not last long.

I really don't care about that stupid "rule" she went out with the guy I liked in 5th grade, so I could really care less! she's sorta a bitch anyways (scuse the french) and no one else thinks I have potential to go out with him sometime in the future so I'm going to take that chance.

[AllThatIsLeft]

okay. Leave L totally out of it.

Don't tell KM anything, and let her find out on her on. She will eventually. You don't need to be part of any of it.

If you have more information than her, luck you, and sorry for KM.

You know what you are doing about L, which is smart. Let things unfold.

it's not your job to tell KM L doesn't like her.

[NightFighter]

Why dont people think you have a chance with him in the future?

Sorry but if you dont have a chance with him in the future then dont expect the relationship to last.

Anway, if you decide to go for it with him then good luck and i hope im wrong =]

[Kinetic]

dont be someone elses messenger, and dont play bye those rules u see on tv.

if u wanna get into something that u think will benefit u take it by the neck and love it because who knows what could happen?,

The hell with km let her figure out that L doesnt like her, and dont even tell her u knew anything.

and on my opinion:if km doesnt get it i say L needs to grow the balls to tell her "No, i dont like anyone atm."

Sorry if that sounds a tad negative but it sounds like some funkyass drama going on so thats how i react with it.