emberassing advice needed...gurls only pls?

[shy soccer kid]

okiee hii my names tommy im new here...im looking for sme advice but i admit relly embarrasses me alot...im13 n welll...im...somewat autistic...n wellll the advice i need is bout 2 things...i dnt hve a gf caus im relly relly shy n welll...i...welll....i....wet...the...bed....lot on accidant allll the time tooo n welll..so im wundering if this is smething i tell a gurl if i liek her?

aaand welll..the other advice is welll...my oldr cousin she sayd i shud wer diapers...guess im wundering if anyone here think diapers r good idea for me too?

okiee thanks.

i hope the gurls here dnt think bad of me now =(

[IAMWILL]

Okay 1) Be a civilized person and type correctly please. Thsi stuf jst mke u lok stpd.
Number 2) Moving to Relationships and Dating.

[shy soccer kid]

im sorry i have spelling issue but ill try thanks.

[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

If you wet the bed, there's nothing wrong with wearing something like a diaper to bed. There are plenty of other kids who wet the bed until they're 12 or 13, just like you, and they do make underpants (and even boxers, now) designed for kids like you to wear to bed. They work hard to make them unnoticeable under your regular pajamas, too, so you don't need to be embarrassed. Goodnites (http://www.goodnites.com/na/) has sizes which will fit a child weighing up to around 110 pounds, and I'm sure there are products for larger kids as well.

As for girls, this sounds like something you wouldn't need to bring up right away. If it comes up later in a relationship, that's fine, but it's not something you need to worry about telling her up front. :)

[shy soccer kid]

wellll thank for the response...i mean see...i guess they wer gunna get me good nites but they sayd they might not work as good...soooo they sayd that regular diapers may be best for me..n im emberassed i hope gurls dont think down of me on this website now =(

ummm...but u think diapers r a good idea for sure?

[RedEyez]

my brother wet the bed tell he was 12 or 13 and he took medication that helped him.

[Charleigh]

my brothers autistic and he does the same =D
dont worry, try and train yourself not to

[shy soccer kid]

relly he does??
wellll...r diapers a bad idea?

[kimkiroo]

relly he does??
wellll...r diapers a bad idea?

No its not a bad idea. Its a good thing you wear that. And also you say that you are uhh something like authistic, well it doesnt matter. Also if you like a girl then move your ass and do something. Shy wont help you believe me.

[mizcuriozity1996]

well dont b assertiv, but shes rite...
if u like a grl, go up to her and be friends wit her and then see were the path goes off from there.....
im not autistic but i do get bullied....
hope this helped....
:D

[Kinetic]

hey man, Im a guy but i cudnt help but read, Your perfectly fine with the diapers i have a cousin who is autistic and wears diapers, He's 14 years old and there is nothing to be ashamed of at all,

as for the girl, i wouldnt bring it up right away but like if your in a long term relation ship i'd bring it up later on

[shy soccer kid]

yeh imm autistic...n welll...im relly relly shy anyway tho that y it hard for me too tlk too gurls...sooo i dunno i guess i cud wer the diapers..my oldr cousin she got me sme tnight anyway...i dnt think theyr the good nites tho...

welll..okiee ill try and talk but i have hard time...and i guess telling her i have too wer diapers is a bad idea...

o and by the way i mean i hope its good i wear diapers i mean since alot of ppl think i shud...


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[Kaleidoscope Eyes]

Don't worry, a lot of kids are shy. Just take it one step at a time. Start by saying hi, and then start trying to have longer conversations. Girls are just like guys, really, there's nothing to be shy about. Just talk to them like you would talk to a friend. :)

If the diapers help, then by all means do not be embarrassed. Just give them a try. I'm sure it would be better than waking up and having to change your pants in the middle of the night--you just change the diaper instead and then everything's fine again.

[shy soccer kid]

hehe welll that good caus my oldr cousin sayd im alot liek a gurl lol

umm welll..i have my pampers on now...they feel kinda...wellll good too wear too be honest..hehe i dunno i like wearing them...not sure y..

thank you whoever deleted the mean comments..=)

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[ArtistInNeed]

My friends brother is autistic and he still wets the bed, its not that uncommon. to be honest i did too for a while when i was younger i told my boyfriend and it turns out he did too. don't be ashamed about it, i don't recommend telling everyone but its a secret best kept until your older and are comfortable talking about. as for the girlfriend part, you need to find a girl that loves you for you and isn't embarrassed about being with you. its a lil cliche to say this but there is someone out there for you, you just need to be patient.

[shy soccer kid]

i hope there is someone...i was hoping someone cud even be on here for me =P

but yeh i been wearing the pampers...i relly relly like wearing them sooo yeh =)

[Confused123]

Don't worry I used to wet the bed until I was like 11 or 12 just try not to drink to much liquids at least 1 hour before you sleep and use the bathroom RIGHT before you go to sleep little by little that stopped my problem. My cousin still wets the bed and he's 14 but don't worry about. Onto the girl part...
I don't ever ask a girl out unless she's my friend (extremely shy myself) first I joke around with a girl and pretend like we go out or something lol and If we both feel comftorale about it I ask her out lol I did it that way twice and it worked.

[shy soccer kid]

Don't worry I used to wet the bed until I was like 11 or 12 just try not to drink to much liquids at least 1 hour before you sleep and use the bathroom RIGHT before you go to sleep little by little that stopped my problem. My cousin still wets the bed and he's 14 but don't worry about. Onto the girl part...
I don't ever ask a girl out unless she's my friend (extremely shy myself) first I joke around with a girl and pretend like we go out or something lol and If we both feel comftorale about it I ask her out lol I did it that way twice and it worked.

okiee yeh that pretty good avice hehe thanks.