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1_21Guns
August 22nd, 2009, 06:15 AM
Last night me and my mum were talking (like we always do) and she starts going on about my dad (depressed and alcoholic) and how pointless depression is. and she wouldnt shut up that theres no point in it. Its clear that she would just be dissapointed in me for not listening to the way she lives. And i know people say when they tell their family they take it differently than what you think, but with what she was saying last night, I know she'd hate it and not even try to help me at all, probably just shrug me off or send me to my dad seeing as he's that way out too. I wasnt sure if I was going to tell her anyway, I was leaning more towards not doing, but now i'm certainly not. How can I be the dissapointment of the family, because I know thats exactly what i'll be. >_>

Darkness
August 22nd, 2009, 06:52 AM
Oh, :( Well then not telling her might be a good idea. I think sometimes people are too wrapped up in their own problems to help with others.

1_21Guns
August 22nd, 2009, 06:55 AM
Oh, :( Well then not telling her might be a good idea. I think sometimes people are too wrapped up in their own problems to help with others.

Yeah your right with that, but thats just the strange thing, she dosent even have problems really, she looks at life in that theres no point getting all depressed over what might happen. which i admit thats right, but its the way she looks down on depression. she seriously just sees it as pointless full stop.
I think it is the best idea not to tell her, for now anyways.