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Θάνατος
August 20th, 2009, 10:34 PM
I realized two years ago that I am bi. I had had a real rough year the past year with my personal life.

I like the idea being guys sexually and have even been with a few guys.

Now here is the kicker My best friend and I have been having these deep conversations when he is about to go to bed the last two weeks and he has helped me realize that I really miss being with a female.

We made a bet between the both of us that we both have to get laid before September 1st. He actually has a girl who he is quite close too and is actually getting and doing oral sex with. So it seems he is closer to his goal.

Well I finally took a huge step and asked this girl out from work that I like and have been flirting with since March. We have a date on Saturday night.

I guess those of you who know me, I ma giving you an update since I am hardly ever online anymore. Anyway ways I hope this works out for me, it will be nice to finally having a relationship. It has been way to long since I had one.

AllThatIsLeft
August 20th, 2009, 10:37 PM
Good luck! and please please dont introduce sex upfront. Don't try to win the bet, and maybe things will go further with this girl!

Aves
August 20th, 2009, 10:44 PM
Good luck! and please please dont introduce sex upfront. Don't try to win the bet, and maybe things will go further with this girl!

Agreed, take it slow so you don't seem like a man whore, or make her think you think she's easy.

Θάνατος
August 20th, 2009, 10:49 PM
Good luck! and please please dont introduce sex upfront. Don't try to win the bet, and maybe things will go further with this girl!

Yeah I know that. I am not trying to win the bet. My friend used it to get me back in the saddle again. I am not in a hurry to be rushing back into sex. I want this relationship to work out.

I also want to thank all of you here for you great advice and patience with me. I know I have been a real arrogant ass at times.

I have finally become non dependent on the Internet for friends now.

Antares
August 20th, 2009, 11:14 PM
THis is wonderful news.

Glad to see you doing so well :)

:hug:

IAMWILL
August 21st, 2009, 12:03 AM
..I know I have been a real arrogant ass at times.

Yaa...... :rolleyes:

jk lol.

Well good for you Rob, i hope this relationship works out for you, you deserve a good relationship after telling about a billion VTers how to start, maintain and end one.

Kaleidoscope Eyes
August 21st, 2009, 07:56 PM
Congrats Rob, good to hear you're doing pretty well these days! :) Let us know how your date goes!

Θάνατος
August 21st, 2009, 07:57 PM
Yaa...... :rolleyes:

jk lol.

Well good for you Rob, i hope this relationship works out for you, you deserve a good relationship after telling about a billion VTers how to start, maintain and end one.

Thanks Will and John it is nice to have support from you guys. Especially you John since we are good friends.

Zephyr
August 22nd, 2009, 01:45 AM
Good luck hun = ]

Even if you don't get to have sex,
It's still good that you're getting back in the game,
Social interaction is always one of the best ways to help yourself.