Lier Friend

[idk4]

hello everybody

I was wondering if u guys ciuld give me some advice. One of my friend invited me and another one of his friends to his house he said that i was going to sleep over and that his other friend was going to stay for the day but go back home at night. He was really excited about the stuff that he we were all going to be doing. Then, he called me at night do tell me that he didnt know about this weekend cause he was going to be busy. I have tried to be friends with my friend's friend and sometimes we play together, but i can tell that he doesnt like the fact of me and my friend being good friends. Now here is the thing. When my friend called me at night, i dont know if what his voice was a lying voice or a voice of disapointment. I really dont care if i go or not, i would only like to know if his friend told him something so that i wouldnt go. My question is should i ask him, should i try to find out by other means like neighboors or family or should i do nothing and pretent that i trust him and that he really canceled everything.

I also wanted to know what u guys think about this. my friend is constantly lying about stuff that happened to him or about stuff that he has and he has never lied to me about something else and i was just wondering. Should i be friends with someone whose constantly lying? I understand that he doesnt want to look bad so i really dont care if he lyes that much cause i like to hang out with him and viceversa.

Sorry for such a long post and sorry if i didnt write this very well, but to avoid details im just going to say that im not on a computer right now.

[tripolar]

It sounds like your friend's friend is jealous of you two. Jealousy can kill friendships.

What you should do first is wait until next week, and ask around to see what happened over the weekend. If he was busy or had no one over he was telling the truth. Now if he had his friend over instead you got stood-up.

If you got pushed out of the picture this weekend you should talk to your friend and see what his friend thinks of you or you could talk to other people and find out. If his friend really hates you and is real jealous, then the friend was behind what happened.

You should not push what happened aside because it might happen more and more. And you said about him lying, its not good to have friends that lie to you because you can't really trust them. If he is lying not to look bad tell him it doesn't matter if we are friends you don't have to lie to me.