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kenshin8106
August 18th, 2009, 10:43 PM
can you get yourself more attracted to girls, if your curiosity is pretty big? I mean gay porn or straight porn I like both, girls are hot XD but curiosity leans to guys on occasion, anyway to completely get away from that? pussy is always nice..but sumtin bout cock, seems like more to do with it, how could I get more..attracted to girls :D? I would never date a dude, but the curiosity of hmm this or that with a dick ya kno?

Swimmaboy
August 18th, 2009, 10:47 PM
going through the teen years always makes you curious about guys. its totally fine

kenshin8106
August 18th, 2009, 10:56 PM
haha good to know XD thx, DAMN PUBERTY :<!!

JimSauce
August 18th, 2009, 11:28 PM
Yeah, you're going through puberty so most likely in a few years you won't feel "curious" at all. But if you really don't want to be bi then try not to act out on any sexual actions you may feel toward men.

bowlheadhere
August 19th, 2009, 01:17 AM
You can't change who you are. If you were meant to be bi, then so be it. By asking how you can "turn more straight/attracted to girls more", you are asking how you can live a lie. You should never let yourself or anyone else do anything to change who you are. There are some guys out there who tried to live the lie to the point that they married a female and have kids even though they are gay and know it. They had such a strong will to live the "American Dream" (wife, kids, good job, etc) that they fooled themselves to think that they were something that they weren't. Then later in life, they finally came to the realization that they weren't what they thought they were. I mean, would you want to do that? Explain to your children that you are gay when they thought you were straight, that you dont love your wife because you are gay, explain to them that it is bad to lie when you have been? I dont think anyone wants to do that. You just have to be yourself and let your life take the path that it is going to take.

Yes, I know that hormones are rushing through all of our bodies because of puberty, but at the same time that is no reason to change yourself. With this said, yes most guys do grow out of this phase. But, still you can not pretend your life is something it isnt. I have plenty gay/bi friends, and the willingly accept that they were ment to be that way, and will therefore live a happier life because they admit and accept it.

Just live your life in truth and you will have a very happy/fulfilling life.

grimlip
August 19th, 2009, 01:21 AM
you cant force yourself to prefer one or the other.. it is what it is