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skinny_white_boy
August 18th, 2009, 10:40 PM
ok so me n my ex broke up about a month ago and i just cant let it go...
we started talking again and i realise i still want her and i think she likes me again so im stuck what do i do now???
like i wana be with her again but im not positive if she really likes me again

zdallasz
August 18th, 2009, 11:19 PM
well try to ask one of her friends if she does.Its happened to me and i kinda let her friends know then one of them might say somthing to her if she likes you she will let her friends know or you and then if u want then u can go back out.Or if u did the breaking up apolagize and say why u did it and say u didnt know why u did what you did and ask her if she still likes you.

Aneklusmos
August 18th, 2009, 11:44 PM
Try working it into the conversation. Or, if youve got the guts, just straight out tell her. Whats the worse that could happen? If you truly still like her its not a bad idea

skinny_white_boy
August 19th, 2009, 12:31 AM
nah i didnt b/u wit her she did it

Allspice_la_fever
August 19th, 2009, 12:41 AM
I'm kinda in the same position.
I think that you should talk to her about it; why did she break up with you, was it because of something you did or did she simply stop liking you. When you've talked it through with her and you are still confident that you still like her, you should let her know how you feel.
The only thing is, I really don't advise going out with the same person more than once. I know that there are some cases where they break up with the other person because of issues at home or stuff like that, but if that's not it and she just left because she didn't like you anymore, it might not be a great idea. If it didn't work the first time, why would it work the second? If the same thing happens again and she breaks up with you, it will only feel worse.
Sometimes it works the second time but sometimes it's just better to let go and move on. Good luck.

skinny_white_boy
August 19th, 2009, 02:12 AM
true but i jus.... CONFUSED she givin like mixed signals id b so embarassed if she said no

Allspice_la_fever
August 19th, 2009, 02:32 AM
Ugh, I so know how you feel. But you're never going to know if you don't talk to her about it, so you should go for it. True, it might be embarrassing if she says no but if you do it privately with just her there it will be easier for you. Lots of people get rejected everyday, at least if she says no you'll be able to move on knowing that you tried your best.

skinny_white_boy
August 19th, 2009, 02:35 AM
yeah jus gotta go 4 it and see what happens

mrcoffeshop
August 19th, 2009, 03:14 AM
dude i know exacty how u feel i just gotover my ex! and it was the same situation but dude to be blunt with you she dosnet like again. u stil have a thing for her and u want her to like u and just a little thing to sugjest that she likes u u will take to the extreem and u will think she likes u again! i highly doubt she dose but i could be wrong...just let it take time and ull be fine need any help PM me any questions or anything man i know how u feel

skinny_white_boy
August 19th, 2009, 08:52 PM
hmm true but thts how she seems to me like she likes me again...

Aves
August 19th, 2009, 10:05 PM
Go for it.

IAMWILL
August 19th, 2009, 11:28 PM
You can never get an answer to a question or solve a problem if you avoid it.

Just tell her "Hey, ever since we broke up, I've noticed that I really still like you, and, if you feel the same, would you like to get back together with me?" Just say it as calm as you can but don't be a suck up. See how that goes.